I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and from the very beginning his mother has been extremely rude or just uncivil to me. I’ve tried very hard to be kind to her and not let it bother me, but recently she just took it too far. She approached my boyfriend and I after school and began screaming and cussing me out saying how I had spread rumors that her daughter was a slut (which I had not, I have been nothing but kind to his sister even trying to get her to hang out with us so I could get to know her better). I was shocked to see her acting that way towards me in such a public place. She accused me of talking about her family’s business and saying that her daughter let men fondle her (again all untrue). When I was silent she hatefully asked if I was even able to speak to which I calmly responded that “I would not talk to someone who was just going to be rude to me.” I was so baffled I really had no other words. This made her extremely angry and once I found an excuse to leave I did. Other people were in the parking lot and told her she needed to take the discussion somewhere else. Overall I thought she was extremely inappropriate. Later that night she told my boyfriend he is not allowed to see or even talk to me anymore. I am heartbroken by this. I have tried so very hard to get along with her and the rest of the family. It doesn’t help that she is threatening to send him to live with a family member and take away his phone (which he’s 18 so I don’t really see how she can do that). I’m just devastated this all has happened, but I don’t know what to do. Why does she hate me so much and what should I do?
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