Are the people we end up loving random encounters or fate at work?

[Anonymous]

for example, you’re on a pretty full train and someone sits next to you and you end up marrying that person

[Nikki1989]

It could be either. Most of my experiences have been totally random, with people approaching me in locations you wouldn't expect. You can meet people literally anywhere.

[Abbycado]

Mine was random. Off campus party. I’d say close to 100 people in a school of 50k.

[jahaims]

Fate doesn't exist. If it did you could sit in one spot forever and have the same things happen to you.

[NathanDavis]

"we are all... one of 300,000,000 possible ones... "

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, red flags and all that messy magic in between for you.

That “random train seat” story is pure romance bait. It’s both chance and choice. Fate puts people in front of you, but you decide to smile, talk, flirt, keep showing up. Random encounter opens the door, your consistent effort turns it into falling in love instead of a cute ghosting story.