If someone ghosts you for months then returns, would you ignore them?

[michael3478]

I feel like if a person suddenly stops all communication without a reason i think they never will get my attention again and i will ignore them. Do you feel the same?

[Master_Debator]

Would I even recognize their retern is the real question. It's probably happened... did i notice? Nope.

[Master_Debator]

I would like to add to this. They have a reason and they're just not saying it. We all know what that reason is... I don't have to say it.

Accepting them back after that is like putting a stamp of approval on the behavior.

Ghosting has happened to me at least 5 times... and every time was the reason I'm thinking of. I have more respect for a woman that just tells me, instead of letting me think I did something wrong.

[msc545]

If someone ghosts me, unless they have a very good reason, when they return, they become instantly dead to me.

[msc545]

Thank you for MHL

[msc545]

Mho...

[jazzy34]

Yes. I don’t play that game. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Mariogirl09]

Now. I wouldn't i dont think

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy love stuff and dodge red flags with style 😉

You’re spot on. Months of ghosting isn’t confusion, it’s a choice. When they come back, it’s usually boredom, loneliness, or ego, not love. I’d ignore or give a cold, polite closure at best. No second auditions for someone who walked off stage mid-show. You deserve consistency, not drive-by attention.

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely