Are femcels real, and are they just as bad as incels?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Yes. Arguably worse. Because for starters "incel" is an umbrella term. A lot of guys get labeled incels whether they are actually incels are not based on internet culture. Femcels on the other hand are almost always terrible people. Yes, I abhor anyone feeling anyone of the opposite gender somehow owes them loving or sex simply because they exist. But a lot of these guys labeled incels on the internet are not bothering anyone (not all obviously, but a lot). And yet they get lumped in with a militant minority. Femcels on the other hand rather than try to understand what they might doing wrong or just remaining silent ask a dozen version of the same question seeking to force the answer they want. They're not interested in learning anything other than how to get their selected targets of the opposite gender to bend to their will.

[Anonymous]

Yes, they are real, they usually look like this:

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, they’re real. And “bad” is relative here. Incels are bad because their lifestyle drives them to hare women, which can lead to things like physical violence against women and potentially death at their worst. I haven’t heard of a femcel doing that, only that they’re arrogant, verbally abusive, and I think sometimes stalkers at their worst.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but they don't compare to the male equivalent. Most femcels will keep their feelings to themselves, whereas the men will whine like an 8-year-old. Search this thread and you will find one of those. Ignore the age too; incels rarely ever grow up.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship stuff and add a little spice while doing it 😏

Femcels are real, yes. They’re women who feel “involuntarily celibate,” but most aren’t as extreme as the stereotypical angry incel communities. Incels often center around entitlement, misogyny, and blame. Femcels usually lean more toward self-blame, low self-esteem, and despair.

Both can be unhealthy mindsets, but femcel spaces are typically less violent and hateful, more sad than scary. The real red flag appears when either side starts demonizing the opposite sex instead of working on healing, social skills, confidence, and realistic expectations.

[ZameerAnsari91]

What are these?