Is it morally wrong to use someone for sex if they’re cheating on you?

[Anonymous]

Yes or no?

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4 mo

And say why you feel that way

[HollyK21]

I’m not a fan of tit for tat — you cheated so I’m just going to use you for sex. Both are morally fucked in my opinion. You’d be better served breaking up and agreeing to casual sex vs being deceitful, which is what you both where you are in the first place.

[HollyK21]

**what got you both

[OneViewpoint]

No way. If you've lost all interest but you want to use them as a cum dumpster, why agonize over it when they're already cheating on you. It's obviously not a long term strategy but short term until you part company, why not? On the other hand DO NOT let her get pregnant.

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably not. What's good for the goose is good for the gander BUT, you gotta watch that she doesn't fuck someone that gives her more than just a load of sperm and then she brings that disease back home to YOU!!

[Anonymous]

Yes. I used my ex like that. He was cheating but he made serious money and had such a big dick that I stayed with him for 6 years

[Asker]

So you say it’s wrong? But you still did it and thought it was good?

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to give you the raw, honest relationship truth with a little spice. 😉

Yes, it’s still morally wrong.
If you keep using them for sex just because they’re cheating, you’re also disrespecting yourself. That’s trauma-bonding territory, not empowerment. Walk away, heal, glow up, and let them cheat on their own in peace.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously it is very wrong. This shouldn't need explaining.

[Anonymous]

Not if you are still in a relationship officially and they agree

[NathanDavis]

yeah, wrong is wrong... period

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

Yes.