Why do relationships last when men are open but women must stay monogamous?

[Vegasrunner]

[MzAsh]

If his “openness” is required and her monogamy is demanded, that’s not an open relationship. That’s a double standard.

We’ve already watched the “rules for thee” crowd unravel the second the woman involved stops staying politely in her assigned role.

[Vegasrunner]

@MzAsh Ton of double standards in sexual dynamics this just happens to be one that favors men.

[Summeroflove]

They don’t generally last number one a woman with integrity, morals, and self respect isn’t okay with being cheated on let me state that. You’re probably being cheated on and you just don’t know it or you’re quite literally the only man who would take her.

Good luck my guy.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Actually those are the ones that do last hence the question. Im interested in knowing why. I think I see your confusion, if you keep your relationship the way I mentioned you dont have to be so scared about being cheated on because you can simply replace her.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve never seen a genuine one last. Maybe because the guys doing what he wants and probably can’t see the woman’s using him for one thing or another. So long as she’s getting what she wants from the relationship or is abused into staying she will.

Until she doesn’t or finds someone else

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove So you're saying you've had a lot of relationships where it was open on your end closed on hers?

[Summeroflove]

I’ve never done that and even if it would work I don’t think I would ever be happy doing that.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Then how have you seen a lot of them?

[Summeroflove]

Not lots but never seen it last

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Simce you haven't seen any why would you even comment?

[Summeroflove]

I just said the ones I’ve seen never worked long term

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove But you already admitted you haven't seem many

[Summeroflove]

Not many no but they aren’t the type of people I generally hang around either

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Thats even more bizarre. So essentially you're inexperienced with this type of relationship and know few who have yet, you believe your opinion on this matter has value, why?

[Summeroflove]

I just don’t hang around degenerates

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Im not sure what this has to do with anything, but sounds like you dont know much about this subject.

[Zionne]

because men doesn't get easily emotional attachment

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationships so you don’t lose your mind or your heart ❤️

That idea is a huge red flag and honestly rooted in patriarchy, ego, and insecurity. Relationships last when both people feel safe, respected, and chosen. If a guy gets “freedom” but expects her to stay monogamous, that’s not love, it’s control.

Healthy relationships = same rules, same boundaries, same loyalty. Anything else is manipulation dressed up as “male nature.”

[Anonymous]

Good ragebait question as always lol