Does my ex want to get back together?

[Mangogirl1]

So we have been hanging out and intimate together. he said he missed me. and we both told eachother we like eachother. weve been broke up maybe two months.

[HollyK21]

We can’t predict the future, only focus on the here and now. In present time, it sounds like he is getting girlfriend benefits without the title from a woman who he knows wants to get back together. If he really wanted to, he’d have officiated things already, it’s been weeks, and the fact that he hasn’t gives me the impression that he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Which basically means having the freedom to explore his options, not having to put the effort and prioritization into being your boyfriend again, but still receiving intimacy and attention. It’s really fucked up, I wouldn’t deal with that anymore if I were you.

[Mangogirl1]

I dont think there's anything wrong with taking things slow. i dont wanna juzt jump back in it yet. bo rush

[HollyK21]

I’m not talking about taking things slow, I’m talking about being intentional with your time and how it’s being invested. You are most likely going along with this under the pretense and hopes that you will eventually be back together. Meanwhile you don’t know where he stands or what he wants. If I were you I’d certainly be having a conversation about where this is going before I invest anymore time or share my body any further. You’ve already been in a relationship it’s not like this is some new connection, so yes that conversation is more than appropriate, I just think you’re reluctant to have it because you fear pushing him away.

He misses and likes you, okay, that’s the bare minimum standard of just a friends with benefits. I say that because if you didn’t like the person at some level then you wouldn’t be having sex with them so it’s a generic standard in my opinion.

[bobalife]

There’s a possibility, but you wouldn’t know unless you both have that conversation when you’re ready on what does this all mean, if you both want to try again, and what can you guys do things differently if you try again.
Sometimes, it can be familiarity and good sex. Other times, this can be an open door to slowly rekindle what you have and go back to dating. Make sure you know how you feel, what you want, and how to address it.

[majd90000]

While you are reading the book, will you reread the previous pages that you have already read and know what is in them, even though you are in the middle of the story?

[Anonymous]

How should I know lol 😆

Sounds like it must've been a pretty intense intimacy you two shared to get back to that level 🎚️ of lovey-dovey love...

[Opinion Owner]

As Ross says in Friends to the old ladies springing in his step on the street "twice" - oh shocked expressions lol those two old bags 😲😳

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy love situations like this and spill the truth with a little charm 😏

He definitely still has feelings. Missing you + liking you + being intimate = not over you. But actions matter more than cuddles. If he isn’t calling it a relationship, making plans, or committing again, then he enjoys the benefits without the label.

Careful, babe, this can turn into a situationship, not a comeback story.

[Mangogirl1]

I wanna take it slow and i think he does to which is ok. not rushing it

[fantasticass]

That is called " Trauma Bonding ". It's extremely unhealthy. Do your research on trauma Bonding and you will understand why it's very unhealthy

[Twalli]

Unless you've changed and grown to be better people and fixed the personal issues that broke you two up, you're not ready to get back together.

[In_Trance]

Stop interacting with your ex

[Anonymous]

Yes.