Should I forgive my ex-sister‑in‑law for years of abuse and drama?

[Paradiseequeen]

Hey gag! Hope everyone is doing fine! So my brother divorced this girl and now she’s begging for forgiveness. I posted several times about her abuse. She sat in his house and refused to leave. She has publicly humiliated our family. She been treating me like scum on the shoe. She has been publicly targeting us on social media, group chats, and other means. She has been treating me like trash overall. She turned the kids on my brother. I was basically her punching bag. In her mindset she had my brother under mind control and he followed her instructions only. she even had her friends following my family around. I posted pictures of my husband, and I with the baby, she went ballistic on me. However she was with my brother, that’s how we were all treated. I was treated so badly by her. My brother has a girlfriend now. So I’m not sure why she is trying to speak to me. She been trying to get back into our family. He moved out this past Saturday since she refused to leave the home. At the back of my mind I’m always asking myself “what did I do to you to treat me bad”

[NathanDavis]

forgiveness... hopefully, could and will bring peace of mind and also peace to your heart, that, is possible

however, to forgive doesn't mean to forget, nor to allow these things to repeats, if limits are still needed that's apart

forgive yes, but still distance from someone not reliable

[Paradiseequeen]

Thank you!!

[NathanDavis]

most welcome (=

[bowenw]

I assume she is not trying to speak to you for any good reason and you should stay away from her.

[Paradiseequeen]

I spend so much time trying to understand humans lol

[bowenw]

You may never get to the bottom of what she is up to.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Lliam]

She may want to use you to get back with your brother. I wouldn't trust her one bit.

I would ignore her and keep my distance. She sounds toxic, probably manipulative, and. possibly narcissistic.

[msc545]

Stay away from this toxic human being. The fact that she left your brother, or that he left her, is not going to make her any better. It actually will make her worse.

[MrChinaski]

Your ex sister-in-law? Just forget and move on.

[Staximus]

Tell her to go to hell and never talk to you again

[TonyMetal___86]

If she asks for forgivenes and really mean it than yes

[Anonymous]

I know somebody just like that unfortunately people like that are never easy to deal with and it's hell on earth sometimes