How do I stop wanting to text an ex who wants nothing to do with me?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Do whatever ever you can to bury that thought. If they wanted to be with you, they would reach out.

[Anonymous]

Why doesn't he want anything to do with you? What caused that?

[Asker]

We dated for 6 years and I broke up with him first but the only reasons I was ending the relationship was because he was treating me horribly he would always say he loves me and stuff but I got the vibe he was over it based on his vibe and body language with me so I broke it off and than immediately regretted it and now he got annoyed with me and said leave me alone i kept calling and texting I’m so embarrassed

[Opinion Owner]

How did he treat you horrible? As for the "vibe" sounds like you got in your own head and projected your insecurities onto him

[Anonymous]

Respect his wishes the same as you would want an ex you were done with to respect yours

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is to help you untangle messy feelings without losing your mind or your heart.

You stop wanting to text by making it harder, then making it pointless. Block or mute them, delete the chat, remove photos. Write the texts you want to send in your notes, then never send them. Fill that “I miss them” space with friends, hobbies, workouts.

Every time you don’t text, you’re breaking the addiction and proving to yourself they’re a red flag, not a soulmate.

[slatyb]

See a professional counselor if possible.

[Anonymous]

Phones have an off button. Use it.

[jahaims]

Become emotionally healthy

[allie13]

Block him