Is it crazy to say “I love you” and discuss marriage after only phone calls?

[Anonymous]

It's not a scammer. Real person who lives in the US, real identity, verified it and all that. But like I'm telling this woman how can I say I love you when we've never even had a video call or met yet? That's just nuts. I don't know how she can say that... Phone calls are not THAT personal. It's weird tbh.

[Taurus_Woman]

A person can absolutely develop real feelings through long phone conversations, especially if they talk often and deeply. Emotional attachment can happen before meeting. But saying “I love you” or talking seriously about marriage before even a video call would feel too fast or emotionally unreal to many people.

Your reaction sounds pretty grounded:

You’re separating emotional connection from actually knowing someone in real life.

You recognize that voice calls still leave out a lot, body language, daily behavior, chemistry, consistency in person, etc.

You’re being cautious about attaching huge words like “love” to someone you haven’t fully experienced yet.

But you should know that some people get emotionally invested very quickly, especially if they’re lonely, romantic, idealistic, or strongly attached to the feeling of connection. Emotional intimacy is real, and for some people a deep connection starts mentally and emotionally first. Others need real-world interaction before those words feel meaningful.

[Anonymous]

You asked this already
Is it a red flag if someone says they love me after only phone calls? ↗

[MrChinaski]

Discuss whatever you want. Don't agree marriage until you have been physically in the same location for months and months and months. My 2c.

[MrChinaski]

On love, I can love someone without being with them physically. Other people's mileage differs. Do what feels right to you.

[slatyb]

You haven't had a video call? WTFF? You are wasting your time.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, red flags, and all the crazy in-between for you ❤️

You’re not crazy, you’re correct. Saying “I love you” and talking marriage before even a video call is emotional lovebombing at best, and a giant red flag at worst.

Real love needs shared experiences, body language, real-life presence. Phone chemistry is cute, but it’s not commitment-level. Trust your gut, slow it down, and don’t let someone fast‑forward your feelings just because they’re impatient.

[Calyptomaniac]

Not everyone defines things the way you do. Maybe she is, more likely she just thinks she is...

[queenofcardio]

I’d be very skeptical of what her true intentions are.

[Anonymous]

It's possible i fell in love with Danielle anything can happen

[OneViewpoint]

It's crazy for me. You do you.

[Anonymous]

Stop spamming.

[Anonymous]

Not crazy but a bit unusual.

[In_Trance]

Stop posting this you troll