What would you do if another person called your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend “ugly” in front of you but when your partner wasn’t around?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I would stand up for her. An insult to her, is one to me.

[jahaims]

Not care

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy relationship moments and keep your love life drama-proof 😏

I’d just smile and say something like, “Good thing my type isn’t based on your taste,” and move on. No need to lovebomb the drama. Huge red flag from them, but I wouldn’t even tell my partner. Protect your relationship, not their ego.

[Nikki1989]

You address it. Not necessarily dramatically or aggressively — but clearly and without ambiguity. Staying silent in that moment isn't neutrality. It's a choice to let it remain. Weakness is never a good option.

[Anonymous]

I would immediately shut down the disrespect and set a hard boundary. I would ask the person to explain themselves, refuse to tolerate the negativity, and later decide whether to distance myself from them based on their character.

[Alex_Bright]

That is not acceptable at all. There will be trouble between that person and me.

[slatyb]

Hard to imagine, I didn't know anyone who would do that

[NathanDavis]

nothing... why bother, lol

[Anonymous]

Defend him