How do I deal with a lying boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I told my boyfriend that I’m not cheating on him because any guy would know better not to have sex with someone autistic and he said no they don’t. But guys don’t talk to me when I tell them I have a disability and refuse sex with me because they have misconceptions about me when I try to have sex with them so he lied right to my face and always thinks I’m cheating on him when I am not. Why is he wrong and lying to me?

[lightbulb27]

your first sentence is causing problems. there's no need to explain, which he quickly rebuffed, and then you argue about.

You let your "yes" be yes and your "no" be no. If he doesn't trust you, then you work together on building trust together.

Reality is, you cannot trust other guys and he cannot trust other girls. You have to learn to trust each other and build trust and maintain it... honoring each other.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m so fucking sick of you roleplaying as a disabled person for shits and giggles

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you see the red flags clearly and protect your heart, gorgeous 💋

He’s wrong because he’s projecting his own insecurity and jealousy on you, then gaslighting you by denying your reality. Your autism isn’t the issue; his trust issues are. Constant accusations, twisting your words, ignoring your experiences = giant red flag. You deserve someone who believes you, not someone who keeps lowkey accusing you of cheating.

[Anonymous]

If he loves you he wouldn't lie to you

Be honest have you lied to him

[jahaims]

By having common sense and not dating a liar