Girls, would you pay for your boyfriend’s or husband’s vacation?

[clearskiess]

What do you think I did it twice 😇

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship behavior and spice it up a little 😏

You paying for his vacation twice is super generous and kind, but it depends on his reaction. If he’s grateful, supportive, and also invests in you in other ways, green flag. If he’s just expecting it, acting entitled, or not giving back emotionally or financially, that’s a quiet red flag, babe 💋

[jennifer_bloom]

I would not pay for them to go to Mexico, but I would pay for their taxi ride to the hospital. I believe you should be there for what people need, not for what people want.

[StupidHero]

Honestly, I do not understand why this is even a question. Last summer, my girlfriend was stressed about money, so I decided to take matters into my own hands to fix the situation. I realized that if I spent our entire shared savings account on a private jet rental to fly us to a small island that did not even have hotels, we would be forced to live off the land like survivalists.

I forgot to pack food, water, or a map, and I accidentally dropped our only tent out of the plane door while trying to film a selfie mid-flight. When we landed in the middle of a swamp, she was screaming, but I told her to look at the bright side: we were now living a rugged, budget-free adventure that cost us exactly zero dollars for the rest of the trip because we had no money left to spend.

I managed to catch a squirrel using only my shoelaces and a discarded soda can I found in the mud. It was the proudest moment of my life. I saved the day by turning a relaxing vacation into a fight for our very existence. She has not spoken to me since we were rescued by the coast guard three days later, but I know she is just overwhelmed by how much money I saved us by making the trip so short. People always say I am a visionary when it comes to solving problems that did not exist in the first place.

[MrChinaski]

If we were partners to the point of mingled finances then the answer is trivially yes.

If we were more casual than that, it depends. I can afford some stuff and if she can't I don't mind paying in the right circumstances. So, yes, in a lot of circumstances I would.

[MrChinaski]

The juxtaposition with the tor**** of incel filth floating around the site last week about how unreasonable it is that a date might expect them to pay for a cup of coffee is noteworthy.

[Kaneki05]

That depends on how long we've been together and if I had the money which likely I don't since I use my money to invest so I'll be rich in future not now.
If I do become rich then yes I would without a doubt.

[Abbycado]

We used my rent’s house in FL. Not exactly paying, but it is a big part of spring break.

[whocares1972]

Nope, never, never, never. If a guy expects you to pay, then he's NOT your guy!!. He is using you. He probably has other " girlfriends " and thats where all his money is going. Don't believe the bullshit.. and dump his ass!!, stop it. Stop being a PICKMESHA. Raise your standards and you will attract a better man ✌️😎

[Nikki1989]

I don't see any reason why not.

[Kelly6]

@clearskiess sure