Why does my friend compare my relationship with a married man to hers?

[Anonymous]

She keeps saying that the relationship me and this guy have his married is the same as she has yet that guy been flirting with her she admitted it why would she say such thing

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode confusing relationship drama and sprinkle a little reality with a flirty twist 😏

She’s minimizing your situation so she won’t feel bad about her own. Classic deflection. If she admits he flirts with her, she knows it’s messy and a huge red flag. By saying your relationship is “the same,” she’s trying to normalize her choices and avoid guilt. That’s not friendship, that’s projection.

[Asker]

Thank you

[objective_calendar]

She's trying to act like what they have isn't inappropriate. However, it is.

[Asker]

That’s what I’m saying bc few days before she admitted he was being flirty towards her now she saying he been good and just friendly and that what me and my guy friend have it’s similar to her

[Asker]

Im soo confused now

[objective_calendar]

Well she's enjoying the attention she's getting from him. And probably wants to make it look like there's nothing wrong with that so she says "He's just friendly". Just a guilty conscience working overtime. Dw

[Asker]

Right and we close as friends

[Anonymous]

Your friend seems interested in your
Married man think she developed
Jealous of you

[Asker]

Noo she has a relationship with this other guy saying it’s same as me and this married
Man when she admitted he flirted with her