Is it possible for the girls in this generation to like the idea of becoming a housewife?

[TonyMetal___86]

[Iron_Man]

Maybe like one percent or 2% in the world. and that might be because they’re lazy and don’t wanna work and they wanna Mary a man that’s well off and just take it easy. When the kid gets old enough to dress him or herself? How difficult is it really you just take the person to school and you fix some lunch and dinner and the rest of the time the woman’s watching soaps on TV all day and they do a little bit of housework it’s not that hard. I’ve seen them before laying around all day then before the husband comes home, they act like they’re working The last hour. And people from my neighborhood they have maid service that comes out and they do nothing. And the maid cooks to. Basically, they hit the lottery ticket. when I was a kid when I got up for school, I was never hungry for breakfast. I basically just got dressed and went to school and the cafeteria fed me and then I would come home sometime. My mom would have a sandwich for me in the refrigerator while she was working, and then she would come home and make me dinner. If I was playing football, she would take me to football practice. My dad was an airline pilot so he would be on the road sometimes 3 to 4 days out of the week. When he was home, he took me to school and football practice, and we all had dinner together at once

[TonyMetal___86]

These days had became like this because women became a lot greedy, selfish and materialistic, they have no morals, no values no nothing, including the guys too, times had changed to the worst!

[Iron_Man]

Yes, things have really changed and that’s why I’m single. Every woman that I have met has been wishy-washy. And they don’t know what they want.

[TonyMetal___86]

True 👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

Yes, sir

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes, but they are facing some backlash from the looney lefties.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[sage2021]

What I don't understand is these women who get married, have children, have a nice home,🏡 yet they leave their children, their most precious thing, with complete strangers, and off they go having their freedom.🤷🏼‍♀️

There's this lady on one of the morning TV shows, Hoda. She wanted to have a child so bad, so she adopted a Chinese baby. And then she went right back to work and left the baby at home for a stranger to raise.

These women want it all!! But I say that if you want your freedom so damn bad, then don't have any children. They don't have a say in who they are raised by. Maybe they want their own mother to raise them but they are stuck with a stranger and learn the strangers beliefs and everything.

How can you have children and then just look away from them because it's Mommy's freedom time.🙄

[TonyMetal___86]

Perfectly said 👍🏻

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

There does seem to be a push for tradwives lately, but overall, I doubt it. With this economy it's not even reasonable. You need both partners to work just to afford bills.

Besides, having a tradwife only really benefits the man in that situation. Having no access to your own funds, not building credit, not having a job history and being tied to your husband's whims is not feasible or ideal for a woman. If he decides to leave then you are basically screwed and if you want to leave your also screwed financially.

[TonyMetal___86]

I gave you a thumb's up because you gave an honest and realisitc answer miss Bri...

BUT, personally i think if the marriage is sacred and real, having a couple that really love each other than there would be no such thing as a man dumping his wife or ever cheating...

When it comes to money and credit card, there is no he or she, even if he's the breadwinner, because his wife means himself and the wife considers him to be herself, they are one, so there no mine and yours...

A housewife is a win-win situation for the whole family and for the wife herself too, because she gets to focus only on her husband, kids, herself and the house... etc

Ofc only the ones who are able to afford it can have this option, not only we must encourage women to become housewives but we also teach others how to respect the role of a housewife and for sure a woman who becomes a housewife shall receives offers from the government and big institutions, plus discounts!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

In any ideal world that would be great for those who want to be tradwives and truth be told, I have no issues for those who choose that lifestyle.

However, this was definitely a thing in the past where women were unexpected to or just plain not allowed to work and it led to a lot of women being trapped into loveless marriages or abusive ones just because they needed his income to survive. It also forced women to marry young because they needed a man to take care of them financially after leaving their parents homes long before they were actually ready for a marriage.

I would love it if everyone had your attitude in how traditional relationships should work for those who want that lifestyle, but the reality for women is that they become beholden to what the man wants because he is the breadwinner and he believes that gives him control of her.

[TonyMetal___86]

First of all, thank you miss Bri for your nice compliment 😊, and that's the big issue when a man understand things the wrong way, there is no master and slave in a marriage, even if a woman serves me and does anything i want, i consider her as my equal, treating her the same way i treat myself, she's a human being and she chose to do all this for me because she loves me and not because she's a slave, i never accept to treat anyone like that, so if i earn the money and pay for everything, does that makes me a big shot? Well she makes the house tidy, plus the house chores, cooks for us and provides a happy and comfortable life for me and for my kids, so what? Money is just filth, to me if i'm married, working hard and earning money is for the sake of the family only and to be happy too!

Everyone thinks that i'm the feminists worst nightmare, maybe i am but the big surprise is when they get to know that i have hated men even more, why? It's because in the past, women were in general were great and simple, instead of having men admiring them and appreciating them, they treated them like sh*t, they thought that they can oppress them and step on their dignity and walk away, plus god gave men the advantage in physical power, instead of using to protect his family, he used it to beat his wife and cheated on her because he thought that he's special while her emotions doesn't matters and that she's just a spare sex doll... etc, all these actions led women to retaliate against men until we lost everything today!

So whenever we look at these raging crazy girls and ask why? Remember how a lot of men treated women in the past, which led to this current situation!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Perfect response, my friend. You are exactly right on that though we aren't crazy lol. Well, not all of us anyways 😉

[TonyMetal___86]

😂👍🏻

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship dynamics and mindsets for you, no sugarcoating but a little flirting on the side 😏

Yes, absolutely some girls still love the idea of being a housewife. It’s not outdated, it’s just a personal choice. The red flag isn’t being a housewife, it’s being forced into it. Healthy couples choose roles that fit their values, finances, and personalities, not society’s expectations.

[CherryLove007]

Like it maybe. But want it NOPE. Human nature is to want what you've never had.

We are in a chaotic world. And have been since the (P) took us women (not girls) down and used our resources for their gain.

Girls should not get married. Did you know it the middle east IRAQ that they lowered the age to get married to a girl to 9 years old? Yep so this is the problem with marriage that men cannot be trusted to have authority in this chaotic world.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well, in this chaotic world, why do you trust me blindly miss cherry cherry lady? I'm a man in case you forgot 😁

[CherryLove007]

I don't trust males. I know the biology of their nature. If you have a brain and have not had brain rot then you know that society has meesed up the minds of males and females and we all need to deprogram ourselves starting now.

[TonyMetal___86]

Before you start formatting and programing, i suggest that you relax and enjoy your life because you have crossed a long path in your life if you get what i mean 😌

You said that you don't trust males? Give me a clear answer, a personal one, not in general, do you trust me or not? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[CherryLove007]

I am on here to point women in the right direction if they want to know how reality operates.

[CherryLove007]

Again I don't need suggestions when I don't ask for them. And this is why I cannot believe the slow minds of men. DO NOT REDUCE ME TO A NUMBER MR. ok?

[TonyMetal___86]

You know that you're reality is broken by me, because you know that all the bad things that you thought about the majority of men might be true but you were surprised to find out that i broke all the norms and different from everyone that you have met!

Don't be shy to say that you trust me cherry cherry lady 😄

[TonyMetal___86]

"Slow minds of men", i'm going to ignore this insult because you're saying that all men have slow minds!

Like i said before, maybe you're forgetting that i'm a man 🤦🏻‍♂️

[CherryLove007]

If your not understanding what I clearly say then you are slow. A man is a man is a man. No amount of changing biology is going to switch your nature. Now all that can be done for men is to not pretend that you men as a collective are UNICORN men.

I don't know your past history. I was told a few things but I cannot confirm or deny them because I don't have paper proof of it.

[CherryLove007]

And they "don't be shy" comment is hilarious. I am myself and not shy to talk on here.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't worry, i clearly understand what you have said but i thought that you see me in a different way, you have mentioned that my biology will dictates how i behave, well if you believe in this, than your biology too dictates who you are and not your mind!

If you think that i'm just like the others because i'm a man than why are you wasting your time following or ever caring about what i say? In the end i'm a man right? It is believed that men are all liars, so i'm a liar because my biology says that i shall lie!!

You're a mature lady, i thought that you'd be wise at this age and not acting like these girls in their 20's 🤦🏻‍♂️

You have really disappointed me, i thought that you knew me better!

[CherryLove007]

Don't tell lies about me and get it twisted bro. I have the wisdom yes and you have no idea how the biology of women operate because I do not here that coming from your lips right now. and you probably have never studies the biology of women. I am sorry you cannot comment on what I just said about I heard something unsavory about your past from a member on here.
I am a mature woman and that is why I can see the BS of non unicorn men before they open their lips.

[CherryLove007]

You probably have heard of the phrase... "keep your friends close and your enemy's closer"?

I let others dig their own grave.

[CherryLove007]

I assume you also might have figured out if you stayed on the topic of our conversation that I did not pull a 20 year old stunt and tell what I heard about you from a member on here. Good day.

[TonyMetal___86]

I really don't care about what you have heard about me from other members, because me too i have heard about you from other members too, but i don't believe everything that i hear because i have my own personality and i like to discover such things by myself, i'm not a kid like you who beliefs others instead of finding it myself!

The biggest BS are your claims! you think that just because i'm a man than i have to be like the other males whom you have met and no matter what i do, in the end my biology will force me to change my morals, values and how i act with others!

You think that you know too much but padon me to tell you that you know NOTHING! after all this time you have suddenly became aggressive and hateful to me, i dare you to tell me just once where you have seen me treating you bad or wrong!

Well since you're a woman, you biology dictates you that you shall suffer from fast shifting mood swings, suffering from menopause and your age where you feel unwanted anymore, suddenly you just last your anger blindly... etc

If you think that i don't know the biology of women well it's your problem, look around, who is the majority of my followers? 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

By the way, since i'm unicorn and spits BS and no nothing about women and i'm just another man that you have met and bla bla bla... well why have you been following me all this time while you were aware that i haven't been following you in return, plus why do you care so much about talking with me, when you knew from the first that i'm an anti feminist and i hate chicks who acts the way you're acting now!

Miss Chery, i don't hate you and you're free to think the way you want about me, i just feel sad that all this time i thought that you're a nice friend and that we get along, no one had listened to you or tried to help you and make you smile the way i did, plus no one was faithful to you as much as i am and i was a real friend to you, in the end you turned up against me out of the blue and have attacked and insulted me like an enemy, please do me a favor and let's cut our friendship, i don't wanna be friends or talk with person who thinks about me or talk to me like that!

Thanks and have a nice day!

[Just_Ken]

Most do i think but few couples can afford it. there's also the matter of what does a housewife do when the kids are all in school or in their late teens or moved out. Was discussing this with my wife whos a stay at home mother right now and she was talking about how she our youngest is all grown up she won't even be 40 yet, so what will she do for the next 30 years until she retires. The idea of the housewife is really a 1950s fantasy.

[TonyMetal___86]

A beautiful fantasy that will always come true in my life, if i ever get married again!

[midnightmoon05]

I don’t like being a house wife. I was a stay home mom for 3-4 years.
now with two income, we just get a nanny…. Solves so much domestically work.
we have a much better life and put our energy on kids vs cooking, cleaning.

[TonyMetal___86]

Good for you

[Anonymous]

less and less it would seem, women these days don't seem to be interested in it until there much older, is too much push for them to find there own careers and do there own thing

[TonyMetal___86]

Right, because girls of this generation only cares about themselves, their looks and their nails 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

i know there nails like seriously some are so obsessed its crazy and guys don't even notice , i've neve cared once what a girls nails look like

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[Opinion Owner]

is this group of girls i know who work at a restaurant here , all pretty and desirerable but so obsessed with there nails its crazy and i'd never like even notice , think there is like 4 or 5 nail salons in my town of 20,000

[Anonymous]

Todays women wish to have a lot more independence, freedom and not to feel being the kept woman.

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh really! Good for them 😄

[Opinion Owner]

What's so wrong in being married, perhaps having children and still working, if only to give the children a better lifestyle and future.

[TonyMetal___86]

I respect married women who chose to work but i prefer and admire the women who chose to become devoted housewives, personally i'd like my future wife to become a housewife, that's if i ever get married again...

[MrChinaski]

Some do. Most don't.

[TonyMetal___86]

Agreed!

[Jeff51]

Doubt it. people are all messed up today.

[TonyMetal___86]

Right 👍🏻

[Anonymous]

Only if they are religious.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yes i guess being religious is a boost but some are religious and yet choose to work...

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed, on the other hand, some men prefer to stay at home, I guess they prefer being a house-husband :P

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah but we can't call these specimen men! just males, because we can find males in animals and bugs... etc 😁

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed, some animals have males who give birth (for example Seahorse) - it's a reverse pregnancy :P

[QuineJessica]

It's not for me lol

[TonyMetal___86]

I understand, no worries 🙂 people are just different...

[beefcakebradybatson]

She's got small spuds !!!

[TonyMetal___86]

What does a spud means? 🤔

[beefcakebradybatson]

B-O-O-B-S !!!

[TonyMetal___86]

😂😂