Do you ever check up on someone who hurt you in the past?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

No not really there are a couple of girls that when we broke up and we talk about thing pretty deep

And we were totally honest about it and we decided that was the best even though it took a little bit of time to do that we did it and we would run in to each other time to time

And there was a LDR WE DID the same thing and that took us forever like six to eight months to finally say okay let's end
it
I'm pretty sure that if we lived in the same city we would probably still be together but you never can tell

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I occasionally check the county marriage license registry to see if my ex-wife has remarried. She divorced me because she said she decided that getting married was a mistake and she wanted to be single. I thought it was a lie, but 11 years later, she has not remarried. Maybe she was telling the truth.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Only if I still have feelings for them. But most of the people who have hurt me I really don’t care what they’re up to.

Finchie40 · Answer

I don’t check up on her but I have to talk to her because we have kids’ together , my ex wife that lost her fucking mind that ruined our marriage and family because she is a mental nut case

HawkPerception · Answer

Nope. Once someone's outta my life, that's it. The only way I give someone my time who's been a drain or toxic in the past is if they apologize and we reconcile.

stalk-stopper · Answer

Nah. And you wanna know who the last person that hurt me was? Some unknown woman in her 30s on here, 3 years ago in a public discussion i said somwthing i will never say to anyone in person, that i have mommy issues and daddy issues because my parents themselves have mommy issues and daddy issues (just like 40% OF ALL ADULTS DO), and so they passed them onto me by treating me as an adult when i was a toddler. Well, the woman on the forum, actually 2 of them, pissed all over me saying "you loser, that's not what daddy issues means, what it means is when a woman screws abusers. But good for you for confessing". I think that interaction stalled my inner child healing for a few years. no i don't check up, i don't even remember one, and the other was banned, everyone knows @emyywolf had only bad things to say about her dad. We were friends actually, digging conspiracy theories together.

molonski2 · Answer

When you get to a certain age , and you have friends pass , sure you check , not for some sexual reason , but to see what's happened..

The longer you live the more interesting the outcome, realistically it's nice that one has interest , I'm sure many check me , and I'm easy to find , it's not an issue.

exitseven · Answer

I tried to find a kid that used to bully me in 9th grade. If I found him I entertained the idea of tracking him down and getting some payback. but I He was not there in 10th grade so I assume he dropped out. I could not find him on the internet but I imagine his life did not turn out too good.

Cidknee · Answer

I did about 30 years ago. Also in 2014. That's all. I could have a few years ago but had no desire to.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Not really. I have no reason to.

worldscolide · Answer

No, never, if they hurt me, they are dead to me.

Debby7810 · Answer

Yes. I have

_Jenny_ · Answer

Nope

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

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