What harsh truths do you prefer to ignore?

[Nikki1989]

[Friendlybro79]

This is such a good question. I appreciate this so much more than another penis size question or another are all men or all women insert whatever that the answer is no answer.

So if you assume that these harsh truths are in fact always true, I'd argue that. I'm sorry if some of these are extreme but it's just to make a point and answer your question seriously.

1. If you're lazy it's you're fault. Hmm I struggle with this because I tend to believe it's true but I have seen really lazy people do really well so who knows if it always matters haha.

2. If you're unhappy it's yours fault. Not true. If someone killed my family they are to blame me for feeling unhappy. I can choose to not be unhappy eventually but the unhappiness that arose wouldn't be my fault.

3. If you're not who you want to be it's your fault. Women and children get trafficked and are not who or where they want to be because of force. They don't want to be trafficked and can't stop it. They may want to be free but this prevents it and is not their fault.

4. No one is coming to save you. Well I can answer this one personally. I had an allergic reaction to something while I live alone. I called 911 and an ambulance came and saved me by using an EpiPen on me. They literally came and saved me.

5. Trust yourself you got this. Yeah I know people that can't do this. Think people that gamble their money away into nothing. They trusted their methods and lost.

I think for many people these saying can be extremely helpful to push you into a better direction but to call them literally harsh truths is inaccurate. Maybe calling them a sobering reality for some is better. Sometimes no one will save you for ex. Sometimes you can be saved.

[AngryCarl3]

If you are who you are - It's your fault.

But what if I don't need fixing? What if stealing lead off church roofs is my destiny?

[Nikki1989]

That quote should be on a t-shirt.

[AngryCarl3]

Thanks for MHO!

[Whitewulf]

I’d rather not ignore any harsh truths in my life. However there are some that I maybe haven’t dealt with.
like, my dad has past and never coming back, or I didn’t get to raise my daughter the way I wanted to.
that I live with regret everyday of my life for giving up on my dream when I was so close and left Nashville TN.
there are two cold hard facts in this life that I wish everyone would come to terms with and stop giving people false hope.
1. ( you’ll meet the right person when you least expect it). Not everyone has “ there person” not everyone is meant to be with someone even though they want that more than anything. There is no Cinderella ending. Some of us are meant to die alone.
2. the Bible does not teach nor did Jesus/God, ever say that he will never give you more than you can handle.
in fact it teaches the opposite. Ask any parent that has lost a child.
The Devil doesn't even know that kind of hell.

[AlperHan]

The harsh truth? Nobody is coming to become the person you're capable of becoming. That's your responsibility alone. The day you accept that is the day your life truly begins.

[Bricealan]

@Nikki1989 I don't ignore any of them. I accept them as fact.

[NathanDavis]

we're the worst that happened to this world...

[LiamJHayden]

Most of the time I ignore that I'm sterile and think about the future kids I want to have. Maybe an example of always wanting what one cannot have.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That everything in my life that I dont like is a direct result of the choices that I've made

[_Jenny_]

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