What should I do if my partner always chooses friends over me?

[Anonymous]

I know its already a red flag for most people, but lately I have been seeing that more and more.
And breaking up just because they miss the fun where fun can be shared.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you decode relationship red flags and stop the emotional chaos before it starts 😉

If your partner consistently chooses friends over you, that’s not “fun,” that’s a priority issue. You shouldn’t be competing for basic attention. Talk calmly, say how it makes you feel, and watch what they do next. If nothing changes, that’s not a relationship, that’s you being sidelined. You deserve someone who actually wants to share the fun with you, not just squeeze you in between hangouts.

[Anonymous]

Not to hit the nuclear option but you might just have to accept you're not right for eachother. Because partners make eachother feel safe. Your partner comes before anybody else. But different people have different views on what exactly that means. Some people have very active social lives, some do not. This is why successful relationships are typically enjoyed by likeminded people.

I would have a talk with her. Voice your disatisfaction in a calm constructive way. And as i said in the end. She may have to give a little and you may have to give a little. Because relationships are compromise. If that cannot be done you may have to just seek a partner who more likeminded to you.

[Nikki1989]

Men with attitudes like yours are the real red flags. She deserves better.