What are your standards that are not red flags and don't kill attraction but you willingly choose?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

I have no such thing as "no red flags". With me, everything is a red flag and it is done on purpose to repel any kind of undesired attention.

I willingly chose those red flags because I am not interested in being in a relationship. People that know me also know not to get too close and to keep a safe distance. I do not tolerate nonsense, double meaning jokes, innuendo, swearing, cursing and dirty jokes.

Those may be green flags with others but they are certainly red ones for me. I have high standards because I don't want to lower them for a relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Another one for the "why the hell was this posted anonymously" file.

[Anonymous]

Philosophical views, esoteric development. But actually, no, lacking esoteric development is a red flag because anyone who hasn't done shadow work will eventually pull their own trigger, get triggered, or "get bored". And philosophical views do not matter as long as the shadow work is done. So there are no non-red flag standards for me.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, attraction, and all the messy human stuff in between 💋

I willingly choose:
I won’t date anyone who’s cruel, chronically negative, or plays mind games.
I need emotional accountability, real communication, and consistency.
I refuse to chase, beg for attention, or tolerate ghosting cycles.

Not red flags, just self-respect and high standards, babe 😏

[Asker]

But those are red flags