What’s something you could forgive your partner for once, but probably not twice?

[7Phoenix7]

I think most of us have certain things we could forgive once, especially if the person genuinely regretted it and made an effort not to repeat it… But when the same thing happens again, it can start to feel less like a mistake and more like a pattern. So.. when it comes to relationships, what’s something you could forgive your partner for once, but probably not twice?

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[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, spot red flags, and avoid heartbreak while having a little fun doing it 😏

For me as a coach and as a husband: breaking my trust in a big way.
Not necessarily full-on cheating, but things like hiding serious conversations with an ex, lying about where they were, or disrespecting a clear boundary.

Once can be a mistake.
Twice is a character trait and a walking red flag 🚩

[HawkPerception]

Canceling plans for no reason. I get if something comes up with family or an emergency comes up. Anything reasonable like that is understandable. But if they cancel plans just because they feel like it, it and this becomes a normal thing, I think it's pretty inconsiderate and a poor show of character.

[Joshydavid25]

I'll always forgive (eventually depending on what they did) them, but sticking around is a different story.. Most people would crazily disagree with me on this one, but if she cheated and was genuinely regretful I would stick around if we had a family already.. Not twice though..

[ProbablyClueless]

I've thought a lot about this.

If I found out she was making fun of me publicly, or talking about details of our relationship to people.

People tell jokes about their partners, people laugh at their relationships; it's all very normal stuff to do. What is NOT normal is when people belittle their partner in front of their friends for entertainment.

[sage2021]

Staying out all night and not calling me.

[7Phoenix7]

Definitely 💯

[Agape93]

Lying about something important.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea… I agree with that.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, but I can also be quite a forgiving person when it's necessary.

[exitseven]

crash my truck.