Was I wrong to be upset about the food and my boyfriend’s attitude?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend hasn't had a steady job in he past two years, he runs a contruction, cleaning and catering company. Some months are very good some jobs pay well he has a few steady cleaning contracts. He has no employees rn per say but he has guys with specific trades he calls to do jobs for him, he pays them he gets a cut. My job is different i work in aviation since i was 18, started as a checkin agent but i do baggage and ramp on somedays, i'm also in my second year of nursing school and i do virtual assitant side gigs also i sell wigs, hair products and knit swimsuits. I know its a lot but i make it work.

Today, i was going over to his house called him asked what he was eating and if i should buy food. He said he was having the sourdough bread i made with chicken and avacado, i asked if any was left for me said no he and his kid ate it. He asked if i could grab some juice and snacks and i can buy what i want he'll make it for me. I grabbed a box of mac n cheese easy to not stress him out and drove over. Got the there handed him the stuff said the mac n cheese was mine. He said okay, i went to shower came back he's laying down. I go check if the food is on the stove not there. I go back ask about it and he says he didn't know i want it rn. His mom made soup and i can have some soup. I love soup but his mom does not cook with salt or meat. I said i dont want soup i gave u what i wanted. He asked what was wrong with me i love soup or am i too good for his mom's soup. I said nvm and went to have a snack, I haven't eaten been at work since 2am and its now 3pm. 'So you thought that was okay' he said to me walking into the kitchen. 'Whats wrong with saying nvm' I asked while eating chips. I had beer in his fridge him and his mom drank it i went to the store got another 1 but they only had lemon. "Did u only buy lemon so my mom and i wouldn't drink it" he said it jokingly but i didn't find it funny. I was just tired and didn't wanna burn myself and he offered.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy relationship dynamics and spot red flags vs normal friction.

You were 100% NOT wrong to be upset. You were exhausted, hungry, brought your own food, clearly said it was yours, and he still:
didn’t cook it, tried to guilt-trip you with his mom’s soup, then made snarky comments about the beer.

That’s not cute, that’s dismissive. The real issue isn’t the mac n cheese, it’s him ignoring your needs and then flipping it like you’re the problem. Big communication red flag, babe.

[slatyb]

Why are you wasting time with this mooch?