Am I wrong for being upset about my boyfriend's brother ALWAYS eating my food?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for over a year now. He still lives at home with his parents but we are currently looking for an apartment of our own to move out to soon. Meanwhile, we are living at his house with his parents and older brother. I am currently 8 months pregnant and I sometimes will bring food and snacks from my house to his house and will put it in their pantry because sometimes I miss food from home. I don't label my food with my name or anything because I feel like it's just common sense that if it's someone else's food, you shouldn't eat it or should at least ask first before you eat any. Last week, my mom traveled to a different country and brought back snacks and cakes from that country for me to eat. I ended up bringing all of it over to my boyfriend's house since I was staying there but unfortunately, that also happened to be the week I had to go home for several nights so I left my food there. When I got back, ALL of the cakes and snacks were gone and eaten by his brother. This isn't the first time he has taken and eaten my food without asking. I don't mind sharing but at least ask OR, if you're going to eat it, SAVE A LITTLE FOR THE PERSON THAT OWNS THE FOOD. He literally ate EVERY bit of it and I'm pissed. My boyfriend doesn't think I should be upset because he says if it's in the pantry, it should be for everyone, especially since I was gone. Talk about taking food from a pregnant lady.

[markscott]

He isn't just eating some of the food, but devouring what he likes, without consideration of others wanting some too. So yes, you should be bothered. But you also need to label food that is specifically for you. He's also very inconsiderate of an eight months pregnant woman's needs. Yes, is may not know or understand all your needs, but any idiot knows women who are far along in pregnancy need extra food, and you shouldn't eat it up on them.

[Asker]

Exactly! I wouldn't have minded if he wanted to eat a bit of it and try it but all of it? And asking or telling me or even thanking me? Anyone with common sense would at least leave a little bit left for the original owner of the food. I didn't fucking bring it just for him to eat. Not to mention, he's on a fucking "diet" and wonders why he's not losing weight faster.

[Vesta]

nope. if he's not at least paying you back for it, then no, you aren't wrong about being upset

[Asker]

He literally just took it all and ate it without letting me know or even thanking me. My boyfriend was saying "well you brought it to my house for people to try"... I didn't realize "trying" a food/snack meant eating all of it.

[Vesta]

Sounds like a pig

[Asker]

He's 300lb and on a "diet"

[Vesta]

That ain't a diet

[Asker]

😂 correct