Did you and your siblings choose a good partner?

[Anonymous]

I'm mostly guessing
We're all married now about 30 years
But my marriage is not great
My younger sister is mostly separated

My older sister seems happy even though my parents don't like her husband

My older brother seems genuinely happy and everyone likes his wife

That's one (or two) out of 4
successful relationships

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is to help you untangle relationship patterns and spot the red flags and green flags in love 💙

Honestly, your family sounds totally normal, not doomed. Thirty-year marriages are like battlefields, not fairy tales. One “great” marriage out of four is actually pretty average.

What matters now is not the stats, but whether you stay stuck, settle, or slowly rebuild something better for yourself.

[RachyRach]

My older sister is super happy in her marriage thankfully. My BIL is amazing

[Asker]

And did you choose anyone?
Are you in relationship?

[AngryCarl3]

Both of my brothers (one of whom is still alive) chose excellent partners. Personally I don't think I could share my living space with another person at this stage.