Are you a good judge of character when it comes to picking a partner?

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Pj1981 · Accepted Answer

I seem to fall for Aries women. It's not intentional. Our relationships last a good while and there seems to be plenty love, sex, and pleasure. I mean really good relationships until well they aren't and it's time to move on. That's where I realize I fucked up. For example I have 2 kids to different Aries women. To top it off they are both nurses. After separation they both pulled out every weapon and became people I would have put my life on that they would never be. They hate each other and both of resorted to using my kids to get what they want. It hurts so much. I have been with 2 other Aries as well and luckily no kids with them. 4 out of my 7 partners have the same sign and I will at least use caution before another.

pjf1958 · Accepted Answer

You'd think that once you become a senior citizen, being an expert at judging character would be automatic. Nope, not by a long shot. Being the victim of a scam artist, being genuinely concerned for a neighbor whose alterior motive completely blindsided you. These are just a few of the hazards facing everyone today

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I used to think so!
Then I look back at my exes and every guy I had a crush on or tried to date-

Yeah I might need to work on judging people better! 🤣
At least I can admit it. Apparently I'm a good judge of character except when it comes to picking out decent, available men that want me!

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

One divorce, and one relationship that lasted 20 years, so I'm 1/2 not bad, not bad lol

NathanDavis · Answer

four meaningful and fulfilling relationships that completed a cycle with none of them being dramatic, nor ended in awful break-ups... no cheating, no resentment, no backstabbing, no guilts... and I'm still friends with all of them, I have been lucky so far... lol

katiesmuff · Answer

I voted no as for me outside of my last pick which has now been my husband for 8 years now anything before him didn't work well at all. Was likely the reason I quit trying to find mr right for so long and just hooked up for the sex and company.

hhadeshatesme · Answer

I use to think so, but my last relationship makes me question that. I must be colourblind cause those red flags looked green

Iron_Man · Answer

I am in general but not when it comes to choosing a partner everybody puts up a nice side for the first few months during the honeymoon phase and then you’re already committed to each other. And I’m not gonna throw a girl away just because she had a little bit of a negative past I believe in giving people chances

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

My partners tend to be a really shit judge of person.

electromagnetic · Answer

Apparently not because the ones I’ve been with just aren’t it.

hahahmm · Answer

Yes, but it took a lot of trial & error to figure it out. Now it seems simple.

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yes and no. Yes in that I am now, so I’m very careful about who I commit to and what I expect from the men I meet. No because if I did, I wouldn’t have had my heartbroken so bad in the past.

Subarugirl · Answer

I'd like to say yes but I think that I just got lucky with my husband

Anonymous · Answer

Based on the results of this poll so far I think a lot of people are good at deluding themselves. There are far too many (especially women) complaining on this site about relationships and past relationships for them to claim they're a good judge of character lol.
Based on my past I'm a very bad judge of character. I have a knack for meeting one succubi after the next.

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Many people look at me as the father figure that they never had even though they are my age. It bothers me sometimes, but it happens often.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Not always initially, but the more I spend time with a person, the more I can gauge them better. Also, most importantly, I don’t pretend to envision them to be something that they’re not.

YollyM · Answer

I'm a born observant person, so I only need a little to study the way people carry themselves to determine whether they would be the right person for me.

TrueConfection · Answer

I husband 20 years. I think I did pretty well actually.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes now I am but I made a lot of mistakes when I was younger

Anonymous · Answer

Option a... I must find a faithful man. I can never get along with other playboy types.

slatyb · Answer

Happily married now, but my first marriage was a disaster.

Wiredone · Answer

Yes I think I'm a good judge of character. I picked a really good one. I married her

Ninani · Answer

I'm getting better at it.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I am. Which is a major reason why I'm still single.

najekim · Answer

Pretty good, I think. Spent the last 26 years with the same woman.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Age 22 and under, nope. But now, yes

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. The problem is actually getting a partner.

JosyJosy · Answer

I hope so, time will tell

Slim57 · Answer

No I handpicked the devil haha

karaspara · Answer

No notoriously bad

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I picked a beauty.

Andres77 · Answer

No... but my wife was awesome at it.

Hulk30 · Answer

it's true

Anonymous · Answer

I wasn't when I married my ex-wife.

Miah02 · Answer

I think so

fonduegirl · Answer

Yes, very much so

pink_and_inlove · Answer

I think I am

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