What would be the more annoying thing, your boyfriend or girlfriend asking complex questions in black and white terms, or repeating themselves often?

[Anonymous]

Repeating themselves

Asking complex questions in a black and white manner

[AI Opinion]

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Both can be annoying, but repeating themselves often wins.
Black‑and‑white questions usually mean insecurity or anxiety and can lead to deep talks.
Constant repetition feels like they’re not listening, not trusting you, or low‑key lovebombing for reassurance. That drains attraction way faster.

[Nikki1989]

That depends on many factors. Complex questions in black-and-white terms are more intense and stressful in the moment because they put you on the defensive and trap you in arguments.

On the other hand, repeating themselves often is more draining over time because it erodes everyday engagement through steady repetition.

[Anonymous]

Repeating