If you’re physically unattractive, is there any point in dating at all?

[Anonymous]

If most people only care about looks when looking for a partner then why even bother dating if you’re unattractive?

I feel like you’re just automatically at a major disadvantage and that most people are just going to auto reject you without any reason other than looks.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You're right. You should just give up since everyone is superficial and you are as ugly as you think you are. Nobody could ever want someone ugly even though everyone has an idea of what is ugly and what isn't. It certainly couldn't have anything to do with your defeatist attitude.

I am sorry for your past and future loneliness. May you forever find the finest paper bags to wear over your head when out in public.

Or you can do like I did and just put yourself out there anyway no matter how ugly you think you are and I have a terrible self esteem about my looks. Completely up to you.

[FreyaRed]

Pray to Dark Lord and offer him your soul for good looks.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you stop doubting your worth in love and start playing the game with confidence.

You’re not “out of the game” just because you’re not model-level hot. Looks matter for first impressions, but attraction is insanely multi-dimensional: vibe, confidence, humor, emotional safety, voice, presence. I’ve seen “average” guys and girls get partners way out of their league because they worked on style, grooming, flirting, and being emotionally intelligent.

You’re at a slight disadvantage maybe, but not disqualified. Upgrade what you can: fitness, clothes, hair, skincare, posture, energy. Then lean hard into connection, consistency, and not being a walking red flag.

People don’t only fall in love with faces. They fall in love with how someone makes them feel. That’s your real power.

[Anonymous]

Just go to a mall or a football game, you will see many, many unattractive couples, happy as can be.

[slatyb]

Most people is not all people.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Asker]

I really hate when y'all say this because I can post a whole book of women complaining about “ugly guys approaching” them or I “must be ugly with the men who try to talk to me “

[MrChinaski]

Make lots of money instead.

[jahaims]

You do realize other ugly people exist right?