My 60-year-old girlfriend only works 4 hours and is lazy at home?

[Jimmy4960]

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I do everything for my girlfriend she does not cook she does not clean I take her back and forth to work every single day she does not pay no rent she does buy food I buy food too sometimes she's mean and rude

[lightbulb27]

That is not a question. State your question...

Obviously, that is not good, something is wrong. Maybe she's sick, be my first guess. Something internally wrong, doesn't feel well. If it's a big change from before. Or hormonal, or sad, etc.. who know.

[MrChinaski]

You are 56. You're a big boy now. Take decisions in your own interest.

[Nikki1989]

There are always two sides to every story but you rarely hear the other side of the story on posts like this one.

[EmmaMary]

Do you honestly expect anyone to believe a single word of this load of bollox.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you decode relationships and call out red flags with a little charm. 😉

A 60-year-old working 4 hours isn’t automatically lazy. Energy, health, hormones, and pain levels hit different at that age. If she does nothing at home, ignores basic chores, and expects you to pick up everything, that’s imbalance, not love.

Skip the “lazy” label, talk calmly about shared responsibilities, and see if she’s overwhelmed, depressed, or just checked out. If she refuses any effort or compromise, that’s your green light to rethink the relationship, not just her schedule.

[AviatorTom]

Why are you with her?

[Anonymous]

At age 60 she should be retired and only doing what she wants to.

[msc545]

Okay, well, I hear you, but why is she still your girlfriend?

[slatyb]

That's a statement, not a question.

[AngryCarl3]

What's your question Jimmy?

[fish5505_87]

Well, what does that say about you?

[queenofcardio]

Okay and?

[In_Trance]

Alright