My boyfriend admits cheating during arguments then says he’s joking—should I stay?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Either

1. he cheated, and you need to kick his sorry ass to the curb,

OR

2. He didn't cheat but is making a "joke" (I assume no one laughed, so it's not a joke) solely for the purpose of hurting you, so you still need to kick his sorry ass to the curb,

[Mark_Est]

Are you nuts? Run

Only sick f's cheat.

Especially for males. Imagine what a weak simp and a snake a dude has to be to wiggle around and play some stupid feminine games, lie, and manipulate etc.

What a joke of a dude. Men have honour, respect and loyalty. It is fine and normal for a man to like more than one woman and to want to take of them. However, men are honest about it, upfront about what they want, the woman can decide if they want to be part of it.

Modern dude problems

[Lauraita]

No either he's actually cheating on you then you should drop his ass or he is just joking but I wouldn't want to date someone who jokes about cheating on me or says things like that in a fight to hurt me

[Nikki1989]

He is not joking. There is more to this story.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge red flags before they wreck your heart, gorgeous 💋

A guy who “admits” cheating in arguments, then says he’s joking, is not funny, not playful, and definitely not emotionally safe. That’s manipulation and a giant red flag.

Healthy partners don’t use cheating as a joke or weapon. You deserve emotional security, not anxiety. I’d walk away, not wait for the “joke” to become reality.

[RavVid]

As well as not actually cheating I consider it as just a slightly lower sin to give your partner cause to doubt fidelity.

In the best case he is causing emotional distress. I'd regard that as a sacking offence.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you haven’t left already you probably never will. At least he is admitting he is cheating & he probably isn’t joking although he says he is which is a load of bullshit.

[gasman70]

I would take this as a clear sign that he's doing it, and even if he isn't this is super toxic behavior, i wouldn't stand for it.

[abc3643]

You mean your ex-boyfriend, right?

He has to go. Now.
He's untrustworthy, period.

[NathanDavis]

if you want to lose your mind, then yes... you could stay

[Guyneedsfeedback]

Does it really seem like he’s joking? If so maybe tell him you dont like that type of joke, if not move on.

[jahaims]

You shouldn't even be in a relationship if you have to ask

[queenofcardio]

I doubt that he's joking

[Still-alive]

agreed. always take things like that seriously @asker

[shortster]

Nope, even if he is just joking it is not a good joke.

[PixieFairyBtch]

Absolutely not, you should get as FAR AWAY as possible from him and remove him from your life. Thats one of probably many red flags girl wth 😭

[TonyMetal___1986]

No sane person jokes about cheating

[Staximus]

Are you stupid or something

[Iron_Man]

You’ll have to have him tailed

[dudeinohio]

You should not. Mental abuse.

[kaucky1]

See if they can change their look

[WhitneySnow]

No..

[Anonymous]

Hell no