What do you do when you miss someone?

[DarKnight36]

I take a moment to look at the faint traces of sadness and the experiences I’ve lived through, and then I shift my focus.

[jennifer_bloom]

I was watching a YouTube video and a female dating counsellor said, if you feel lonely or sad over a missed romance, the best way to get rid of that, is to expand your social events.

If you are not able to host parties or mini vacations due to busyness or limited social connections, you could find something to keep you busy, such as learning the piano, or playing a long term computer game that requires years of strategy to go through, or beginning a work out regimen or seeing if you be used to help out at a charity or food bank or at a cultural arts festival or at a culinary event, or you could join a bird watching group, a star gazing group, a gardening group, a running group, etc...

Now piano lessons used to cost up to $80 an hour, but now A. I. can teach you piano for the price of a weekly newspaper. You could also play chess with strangers online or you could volunteer for a suicide crises hotline to help people in crises.

[JHNS98]

Not a missed romance per se, but I've had a very tense connection – let's leave it at that – with a girl in one of my circles for some time... So I joined a gaming group (board games, consoles, trading cards, roleplay). And wouldn't you know it, now I'm apparently falling for one of the girls there.

[Nikki1989]

Missing someone is a natural byproduct of caring about them. Fighting the emotion only amplifies the tension. You just have to discover the inner strength to move on.

[AviatorTom]

Move on. Find something, or someone, new.

[genericname85]

i honest think i never missed someone. it's kind of weird. cause in my mind they're either around so i can still talk to them if i want to or they passed away so there's really no point in thinking of them. actually i miss people so little some of them thought i don't care xD it has been a bit of a point of argument cause i'm also honest about it so when women ask if i missed them, i say no, which isn't what they wanna hear XD

[sage2021]

Lay down on my bed and play some music 🎶 that reminds me of them and look at their pictures.
Sometimes I cry while listening to the music.

[exitseven]

I had a long distance relationship a log time ago. Sometimes I would write her a letter and sometimes I would just listen to sad music in my bedroom.

[Anonymous]

I do too, but it’s hard to shift focus if I really miss them

[OneViewpoint]

I adjust my aim.

[andreasderjuengere]

Reload, and try again.

[clearskiess]

Try my best to not think about him

[NathanDavis]

I call them

[MrChinaski]

Reload.

[FunkyMonkee]

Pine.