Why does my boyfriend expect kindness while calling me stupid and dirty?

[Anonymous]

he call me dirty bitch

He say I’m stupid

The list goes on…

im tired of it

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you spot red flags and protect your heart, gorgeous.

This isn’t teasing, it’s emotional abuse. Constantly calling you “stupid” and a “dirty bitch” is meant to break your self-esteem so you accept crumbs and feel lucky. That’s not love, that’s toxicity.

You deserve kindness, respect, and safety. Ignore his expectations. Start planning your exit.

[OlderAndWiser]

The much more important question is why you are still calling him "boyfriend?"

[Anonymous]

He can call you those things and you are still with him. That does make you a little stupid.

[tiredpanda]

Why are you wasting your time on him?

[Nikki1989]

Why are you even with him?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Why do you tolerate his behavior?

[rgb008]

call him a dirty bitch too

[WhitneySnow]

Dump him