If someone is THRILLED to be with you and wants to marry you and make you as happy as you can POSSIBLY be, why would stop them?

[FunkyMonkee]

THINK ABOUT IT!!! You're about to embark on a new chapter of your life that's going to make you ecstatically happy for the rest of your days and YOU decide NOT to let them just because YOU don't think you're good enough for them!!! THEY WANT TO FUCKING MARRY YOU AND SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIFE WITH YOU!!! THEY, OBVIOUSLY think you ARE good enough for them and would be THRILLED TO NO END to have you by their side!!! WHY THE FUCK would you want to keep that from happening?
And, if THEY think you're the best thing that's ever happened to them, why would YOU think you could never live up to the standard set by any of their ex's when they chose YOU OVER ANY of those ex's?
On top of all of that, WHY would you choose to leave them KNOWING they're the best thing you've ever met and, after spending 2 years boyfriend your life building your relationship with them, WHY THE FUCK would you drop them only to try to start all over again with someone else and have to search who knows how long for someone else just as nice when you've ALREADY GOT what you've been looking for all your life?
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!

[LazerBean]

Unfortunately, getting into a successful marriage requires two things: being able to be a great partner who makes their spouse happy, and being able to sniff out if someone will do the same for you. Even the greatest, most marriage material person will always fail if they keep picking the wrong type of person.

[FunkyMonkee]

But, we're perfect for each other!!

[exitseven]

I knew this girl who really was in love with me. She was pretty and very smart. She had a good job and we had a lot in common. I thought we were just friends until one night out of the blue she drops this bomb on me. Being with her really made a lot of sense and I thought maybe it would be good However it just seemed that something was missing.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've been "with her" for two years and we are perfect for each other and I've seen NOTHING miissing between us!!!

[exitseven]

@FunkyMonkee so why can't you close the deal?

[FunkyMonkee]

Right now, her! She broke up with my 5 weeks ago partly because she's too busy renovating her house to BE my girlfriend, right now, partly because she's got some personal issues she needs to deal with and partly because we're so far apart, physically. She doesn't think it's fair to me. It's also possible she still thinks she can't compete with my ex's!! I never heard of anything so dumb!!! I've told her time and time again that NONE OF THEM could EVER HOPE to compare to her!!! SHE'S THE ONE!!! If ANYBODY needs to compete, it's THEM against HER!!!
Right now, the only thing that's stopping me from doing what I'd LIKE to do is a lack of money!!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a diary rant. We can’t answer those questions for you, only your ex. But my guess is either she lied and just saying those things to not hurt you but in reality she just doesn’t want a future with you. Or she really think that low of herself and have zero self-esteem. Either way you can’t change it. Move on.

[FunkyMonkee]

One day, she was telling me repeatedly how much she loves me, something she's done thousands of times in just the past two years and, the next she says she wants to break up!!
In either case, I DON'T think she was lying to me!! She never has before!!

[KypHistory91]

Some people always want "more" and never know what they've got until it's gone

[FunkyMonkee]

But all they have to do to get it back is go back TO IT!! It was THEIR CHOICE to leave it!!!