7 dates, not exclusive, would you still date other people?

[Anonymous]

If you've been dating someone for about 2 months and still aren't exclusive (but you both agreed to see where it was headed by the end of month 3), would you be open to dating other people?

Do you think it'd be wrong to continue seeing other people despite having gone out with this person for almost 2 months?

[martyfellow]

Sure, you do't have any agreement to be exclusive yet, and maybe exclusivility at your age isn't a great idea...but regardless, you are free to do what you want so long as you don't date anyoone from the Taliban because Obama will have you killed.

[Anonymous]

Better get very clear with him. I doubt he's gonna be thrilled

[Asker]

What if both of our online dating profiles were still active and he was still talking to other women? He says there hasn't been anyone else who's caught his eye, but he's still browsing.

[Opinion Owner]

Big whoop. He's still going to be unhappy, especially if you\ve been having nookie

[Asker]

Nope, no nookie until we're "official"

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you're killing the guy! Wow. He might be relieved to be free, then again, he put in his hours and probably feels deserving of boom chicka bow wow. That's how guys think.

[Asker]

Haha, and you don't think he's killing me either? The thing is, we're not exclusive and it hasn't been proposed. He did say we'll see after winter break if we'll make it official. I don't really want to or really have the desire to go on casual first dates with anyone else, but since we're not exclusive, I figured I'll just leave it up until we're a couple.

[crazzyiz]

yeah you can still see people.