Why does my boyfriend always tell me to be careful?

[Anonymous]

when he knows I'm not doing anything or just laying down. He says it a lot and it annoys the hell out of me. He also asks me what I'm doing if I don't text him back one minute later.

If I say I'm not doing anything he says "You have to be doing something" but I'm not, he even got mad at me for being in my own brothers room & said I was in there because of my brothers friends but my brother didn't even have friends over & I told him that.

So what's his deal?

[justanotherguy00001]

Ok, from what I read?

I see insecurity, jealously, clingyness.

It's your BROTHERS room. Just wait till you're talking to some guy friend and you dumps you for "cheating"

Either deal with it and tolerate it, or tell him this annoys the hell out of you.

[JayCutler]

his insecure...thats a major turn off and a deal breaker right there. I usually advise girls to run away from a relationship like that before he gets too paranoid and start stalking you

[Asker]

Lol he's not smart enough to stalk me & doesn't even know where I live

[JayCutler]

well these kinna situation can get pretty crazy. I mean he can goggle you, Facebook, the internet, yellow pages..i mean there is so many ways he can find where you live silly so don't be naive

[Asker]

well he made me "delete" my Facebook and doesn't have internet access so I'm not worried about that. my mom warned me about him I'm not being naive

[lyza_jane]

Seems controlling to me, maybe he has trust issues because of things that have happened with past relationships... ask him why he doesn't trust you?

[Asker]

I think that too. he says he does trust me

[lyza_jane]

No offense but that's a load of bullsh*t. Actions speak louder than words.

[Asker]

I agree