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My boyfriend always keeps me out of the loop?

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I have been asking my boyfriend (25) to keep me in the loop for almost 2 years now and I still do not feel satisfied with the way he communicates. Every day when he comes home and I ask how his day is, he just says "went to school, went to the gym, the usual", which really tells me nothing about his day. Like, if he went missing, I would seem like the worst girlfriend EVER because I would not be able to tell the police a thing about where he was that day. It makes me feel disconnected from him and sometimes worried since I don't know the names of any of his classmates, usually who he sees during the day, or if he's planning on doing something. For example, he'll just tell me he's getting a haircut WHILE he's in the process of getting a haircut without even letting me know he was thinking about this, or telling me our mutual friends are coming over only a half an hour before they do. It's so frustrating. Its not like I'm asking we text all day either. I feel like he's just trying to maintain his independence from me, but to me I feel like his behavior sometimes borders on lying by omission. I know he loves me and he's a great boyfriend, he's a huge sweetheart but when he doesn't communicate with me it feels like he is a stranger. I could not imagine having my husband or the father of my children communicating in such way. I sound like a broken record asking for better communication this over and over. Should I end it?

My boyfriend always keeps me out of the loop?
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