Wow, I like how you reacted to the situation, props to you. I'm not sure if it will make him miss you but I'm pretty sure he still wants to talk to you, just can't really get his head around that with all that he has happening atm. I'm not sure how long it'll take, first he needs to destress - that can take awhile. It's already heaps good that you left him alone for a MONTH, that's a hard thing to do, so I guess if you dropped him a little question, it wouldn't be too hard on him, and hopefully it's somewhat acceptable to him.
MM wait, pretty sure he was falling in love with you? :x, it sounded like you were really really sure of that at the start. If he does love you, I'd suggest just letting him know that for now you're willing to wait for him, but to please let you know if he just wants to move on? Just explain that you do want to be with him but not knowing what he's going to do after he gets his space is an issue.
It sounded pretty clear that it was over till he mentioned "he got someone else involved." Just ask him to clarify what he means - if he is willing, later, to go back to you or not.
How long were you with him?
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I would definitely give him space. Also typically when someone breaks up "out of nowhere" the "out of nowhere" is only on one side.
Honestly there's no guarantee. There's a chance it could, but it's more likely that time without you in his life will just make it easier for him to put him behind you. Given how things went I'd say you have a better chance than most other girls of making it work for you, but it's still a pretty small one. I think a better thing to do would be to simply wait a couple weeks with no contact except for when and if he contacts you, then reintroduce yourself into his life as a friend who is there for him when he needs you. That's also no guarantee, but the chances are better of going completely no contact.
there are plenty of fish in the sea, and unless your a marlin, he will put his line in again and keep throwing back the cod. so unless you think you are a "trophy" jusr stay on the line.
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