My boyfriend humiliated me!!!!!

[Californiagirl201122]

Today my boyfriend sat be hide me he was kicking my back. Then he stuck his hand up my shirt and tried to unhook my bra. Which I laughed at about. Then he tried to stick his hand down my pants from behind I had it I smacked his hand. He stopped. But then the next class everybody said he licked his fingers but why? And now the whole school is saying stuff about me. What should I do?

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Thanks for the advice and I talked to him about it. He was so sorry and said he won't do it agian until I'm up for it.

[ObscuredBeyond]

He sounds like a creep. Ditch him fast, and tell him you want a gentleman that will respect you. Do it the very next time he tries something on you in public, and the humiliation will turn right around and be on him. Let him know that he is first and foremost a spiritual being who will have to answer for how he uses his body and yours. He is not entitled to your body in the way he treats you. And if he intends to degrade you publicly without your consent, he can get lost.

[Californiagirl201122]

I love him and trust him but he does it At the wrong place an time

[ObscuredBeyond]

He sounds very immature then. Next time he tries that, swat him off and tell him to grow up and save it for private time.

If he loves you, he'll listen. My sisters all dated creeps; so I'm on high alert when I suspect other girls of doing the same.

[Anonymous]

Break up with him. Show you won't tolerate that behavior.

[Stacyzee]

Who cares what the whole school says, its your boyfriend. Its not like you are screwing everyone. He basically likes your scent, and was trying to show you he has no problem going down there.

Let your boyfriend know what his behavior caused (and that you'd rather him be sexual in private). Let him know his behavior was not okay and you resent it; when you mean stop you mean it and that is all.

[Stacyzee]

Ty for ba :)

[Stacyzee]

Ugh which why I hate thanking people for ba.

[Anonymous]

In school? That's totally inappropriate, and your boyfriend sounds really immature. Talk to him about it, tell him that it's inappropriate and why you think so, and if he keeps it up, really consider getting rid of him. Just because he's your boyfriend doesn't make it acceptable to be really handsy and sexually suggestive around you in public - especially if you're not up for that.

[Anonymous]

What is he 7?! Just talk to him about it, nothing you do will change what people are going to say anyway. In a day or two people will be gossiping about someone else or the next big "topic". Don't let it bother you too much though.

[upsyndrome]

How old are you two?

[Californiagirl201122]

Well to be true I'm 15 He tried it in schoOl

[upsyndrome]

He sounds kinda creepy.