Why do "cougars" act so much more aggressive toward me than younger ones?

[Anonymous]

I'm in my 20s, and today a "cougar" at a bar decided to drop her pants some to show off her backside, and acted annoyed I looked away; she was singing a made up song that went like "I wanna F you", then she started complaining about hot flashes. If I was into women who are at the "hot flashes" point in their lives, I'd be in Heaven. I'm polite, and am a gentleman and don't encourage that behavior. I have an older friend who has young girls flirting with him. We play in a band together. He's a grey-haired, straw hat, sandals wearing guy; not exactly a suave or distinguished look. He laughs, seeing cougars act really aggressive around me. So why would older women go for me, but younger flirt with him? Is it 'cause flirting with someone who's a way different age is low-pressure and not as scary as approaching when they're the same age? 'Cause for me personally, approaching women I don't know who are my age age takes more courage than talking to some older woman I don't know. Sound like it might be the same for the girls? I'm not completely hopeless or anything, I'm pretty social and people like me, and I have dated cute women.

[teasegirl]

They prob want to make you "naughty" lol idk. I'm sure young women flirt with you but don't make it as Obvious as older women. "Cougars" don't give a crap and really just say what they want. I'm sure they aren't wanting to marry you, they just want some young dck.

Young ladies that flirt with older men is more common. Older men are experienced, and mature. And a lot know how to treat a woman.

I know I like older men, the young guys I talk to behave like idiots. It all has to do with what you want. I wouldn't date an older guy if all I wanted was sex. I would date an older man if I really want a relationship with him. Younger dudes are just for fun. Guys in their 20s don't want to get serious either (at least the ones I know)

[Anonymous]

It must be your personality that makes them feel more comfortable around you.

[Belgie]

Generally it's because the older types are long past the point of playing stupid games. They know what they want and they aren't shy about getting it. To many younger types, that bullsh*t free approach is very refreshing.

[IHateBeingaMan]

they probably are not as sought-after as they used to be

[Anonymous]

It must be about your appearance.