Because we are teenagers, and we tend to be emotionally unstable. Whether it's the ones who bully you, or you yourself. When I was in the middle school and early high school, I always left-behind. I think it's because I was too stubborn and persistent, and I didn't want to listen to their ideas because I thought they're lame.
However, it's not how our lives should work, right? We ought to give them chances to speak their minds. On the opposite, express the things you want, in the right place. And try not to hurt their feelings. Besides, I was too awkward, and maybe that's why they didn't like me.
Even now, there are people who don't like me, still, even the one I call a good friend talk about me behind my back. But who cares? Now, I just focus on how I express that I like, love, and respect them as my friends. My father once said that how much you try, you still have those people who hate you with their hearts, so what should I do is to show them my kindness, with all of my heart as well.
Kill 'em with kindness, they say.
I don't know how do you spend your everyday life. But, why don't you try to act more sincerely? Just forget that they are really hostile, always try to make them feel comfortable around you so you can show how much you like and always want to be their friend.
Trying doesn't mean that you always try so hard to please them until you forget about yourself. Just be a kind and humble person, that's all.
Good luck. :) <3
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Because teenagers suck. High school sucks. The social circles that you currently frequent really thrive off exclusion and more or less bullying. It's tough I get it.
People are always afraid that their opinions and existences don't matter so they try to make people notice and sometimes they do that in an overly hostile way
Teenagers are hideous bundles of hormones and insecurities and underdeveloped empathy skills (no offence :') )
Its because they have an effect on you. If you just didn't give a shit about their insults, they would stop. Try growin a thicker skin, or first just try acting like you dont care.
no social skills, think they are god's gift. mr/mrs know it all.
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