Questions: Relationships

This is inspired by my parents relationship and how other men perceive a Gold Digger.

My dad works 12 hours in the field doing electrical and construction work. That he drives 2 hours back home full of dirt and mud. In other words, he’s exhausted. While my mom cleans and cooks in the house.

My dad comes home and gives my mom his paycheck. (She never asks for money and sometimes she gets surprised why my dad hands her money while she is doing chores.)

Now fast forward, my mom got fed up with my dad and the household conditions. She is staying at my place for a bit. Then my dad called my mom and told her, “the dishes are piling up and there’s no dinner. I’m exhausted from work. I’ll pay you if you please do chores here?” So she took him up on his offer.

With this scenario, is a girl still considered a gold digger if she cooks and cleans for her man?