Questions: Relationships

If you answered D, please tell me in a comment how much of your time is involved talking to other people who speak your primary language.

I am living with my girlfriend who came to the US from China in 1992. I do not speak Mandarin or any of the regional Chinese languages. EVERY night, Ms. Helen is on the phone talking with friends in Mandarin, and there are only three things I know in Mandarin:

1. Nǐ hǎo (hello),
2. Wǒ ài nǐ (I love you), and
3. Nǐ fēngle ma? (Have you lost your mind?)

so I don't understand any part of the conversation after they say "hello!" This constant barrage of Mandarin jibberjabber with her friends is taxing on me!

In modeling there are plus sized models and women always tell other overweight women that they are beautiful etc.

I think that's evil for a few reasons. First of all the health of the woman will keep getting worse and it will shorten her lifespan and give her health issues as well as possible low self esteem, physical pain, and it will be harder to find intimacy etc. And believing something false can cause more mental damage long term which can lead to more suffering.

I will use myself as an example. I used to be very overweight in my teenage years. Then I suffered from finding a woman to date or be intimate with. After several years I realized 99% of women don't find fat men attractive (even fat women don't want fat men). That's just reality. I'm not saying that's my fault and neither is it the fault of those women obviously. But because of the false expectations of "fat acceptance" I thought being fat is ok.

After a couple of years of gym and caloric restrictions etc. I was treated like a completely different person. I was respected and admired and both men and women would be friendly and accepting. I later got with a girl that I found attractive without putting almost any effort. Sadly around that time I started losing most of my hair and now I'm invisible to women again. (brutal I Know).

Anyway I think we shouldn't make people feel bad about themselves but I also don't think we should lie to people and make them delusional. We should admit that there is a problem somewhere and encourage people to be healthy and live a better life rather than "empower" them to ruin their lives and future opportunities.

If someone's entire existence and reason for living was to serve ONE PERSON and one person alone (not any religious deities or higher powers; just one human being), how would you feel about that? Would you have a positive reaction to that or a negative reaction to that? Or do you just not care? Please explain your reasoning.

Another user asked a question about whether it was ever okay to slap a boyfriend or girlfriend

Is it okay to slap your boyfriend when mad or is that considered domestic violence?

so I started wondering about how often that happens. Have you ever done it? If you did, why?