Questions: Relationships

I think its more or less true about 80% of the time. I am not talking about physically abusive relationships. Just the average relationship, i think normally men are happy to resolve conflicts and stay attached longer term. Perhaps its easier for women to get the emotions out and move on. I imagine their friends may encourage it rather than resolve too.

A 2015 study by the American Sociological Association found that women initiate two-thirds of all divorces, a staggering 69% to be exact. College-educated women initiate divorce at an even higher rate: 90%.

https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men

I’ve been seeing this girl Ashley for about a year. She has this guy friend named Brad. She’s known brad for years. She met him because Brad was married to her friend. Brad is divorced from Ashley’s friend, Ashley isn’t even friends with that girl anymore , but she’s still close to brad. When Brad was going through his divorce. He and Ashley travelled to Dubai together as “just friends”.

I’ve met Brad. He was extra nice to me. Brad told me that he n Ashly are innocent, and nothing has ever happened between them. He’s always inviting us over. Now they might take another trip together.

I told Ashley that’s inappropriate, she’s gets defensive and says “I’m just jealous”. I haven’t told her yet. But I’m gonna break up with her if she goes.

The reason for that, is. I personally don’t believe nothing has ever happened between them. I mean travelling together after his divorce, he’s, emotional, lots of alcohol and partying involved. Second, even if they’re telling the truth and nothing ever happened. It’s still kind of disrespectful travel with another dude while you have a boyfriend.

Am I in the wrong? please give me your honest opinions!

Most of us have come across people who again and again end up with toxic men and women when it comes to relationships, and complain all the time how their luck is terrible or how it's all the fault of the opposite gender.

From what I've seen, most of these people tend to be quite narrow minded, highly demanding, generally rude to people they don't believe have a high social status, you get the gist. These sort of people attract those who are quite like them, and end up getting treated the way they treat some others.

What do you think though?