Can a man make a woman happy without money?

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Just a question and explan in details why you think the way you do. I think a men can make a women happy without money but it depends on the girl if she values money or love. Not saying women to to settle for broke men but he gotta at least have a job, a car and be in school. I see women pass on good men becuase he didn't make enough money but as soon as he makes it these very same women now wanna be in his dms. Am not a bitter men I always belive in a men should always pay for everything but thanks to my current girlfriend I. Belive in going 50-50 not into women who dont got their own.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Like you said, it depends on the woman's values, though. But, any woman who is only interested in a man's money is not a good choice, most likely will not be completely satisfied (it is very common for cheating to happen in relationships like these), and will likely be gone once either the money runs out or she finds another guy who can take care of her, whom she likes better.

I do think that there's a difference in wanting a guy to be self-sufficient and have a job and a car, and expecting him to be well off and having her main priority be how much money he makes. It's reasonable to not want to be in a relationship with someone who is financially irresponsible or unable to hold down a job (especially when looking for a serious relationship, as your partner's financial irresponsibility or inability to keep a job will affect you as well if you eventually live and pay bills together and/or share money or property) or expects to be taken care of like a child when they are fully capable of doing their fair share. If I were dating, I would not expect a man to want to provide for me without me pulling my own weight, either. However, someone primarily focused on someone with money to "take care of them" so they don't have to work as hard and get to have a more expensive lifestyle is obviously a red flag.

If you ask me, the kind of person you will be more likely to have a mutually loving and lasting relationship with will be much more concerned about what kind of a person you are and how well you two connect than how well off you are, or what kind of fancy possessions you have.

Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

Sure, men can make women happy without money because things that could make a person happy are not always obtained by spending money. Happiness can obtained by engaging in certain hobbies, having good sex, spending time together, etc. However, relationships where men lack money are not always good for women. Men that are short on money are more likely to be moochers that live off their women. As a result, they require women to take care of them similar to how mothers take care of their young sons. Most women that aren't completely desperate would not be happy with taking care of another grown man that should be capable of taking care of himself. Also, men that are struggling financially are more likely to struggle raising a family. Raising a family costs a lot of money and families might struggle to get what they need. Having a job, car, and being in school isn't enough because he could be working a minimum wage job with limited hours, have an old raggedy car that is unreliable for transportation, and students tend to struggle financially until they actually start their careers. Thus, the goal of any woman should be to accept a good man that is financially stable. I get that money isn't everything, but it's still very important in relationships. I also don't believe in going 50/50 either, especially during early dates. I believe that adults, regardless of their gender, should support themselves separately and provide of their kids if they have them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’ve seen attractive women fall in love with complete deadbeats.

The thing is the deadbeat knows how to press her buttons emotionally. He knows exactly what to say and behave to keep her in love with him.

As a relatively successful guy this always pissed me off. I’m 100% independent, self made. I ran my own company a few years ago. I currently make a 6 digit income, own real
estate, have an interesting past and I’m well traveled.

BUT the only time I ever “charmed” a woman when I was went through a Peter Pan phase when I was scraping by. My then 25 yr old girlfriend was making more money than me (at 32). I wasn’t a bum but I was living paycheck to paycheck because I was chasing a very consuming hobby. It bothered me that I didn’t have more money. Bothered me much more than it bothered her. It bothered me to the point I self sabotaged the relationship.

Now I’m more settled and have a good career I’m “boring”. The last 3 years have been the worst dating experience of my entire life.

Nawlins34 · Accepted Answer

Yes, especially if that's what she's mainly concerned about. It's either that or she likes what he currently possesses and should two separate

she'll leave with the latter.

This really comes down to what that woman values, ya know?

If she's focused on interactions, the experiences, the memories, that will lean towards the guy. She values that.

Guys have to be careful though, because a guy can "humor" a woman who isn't about the for the time being, and he thinks it's genuine appreciation until a guy offering the same comes by with higher net value.

What does the woman value is the question?

ragequeen · Answer

If he pulls my hair and bends me over he can make me happy for years

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If I can survive and our future children can survive and his family can survive without his money than his income does not matter - I believe that unless you have a solid sense of morality grounded in God, that having high amounts of money will corrupt you - every non religious rich person in my family was corrupted by the money they received - I would rather be poor and die loved by God than be wealthy and go to hell

jerseygal623 · Answer

Yes. I’m a rather boring individual. The men I’ve dated who made significantly more money than me always seemed to want to party and do things that involved spending ridiculous (to me, anyway) amounts of money all the time. It’s hard to explain the pressure I felt that came with that. It wasn’t so much I felt inadequate—I mean, they were with me, after all—but more that the introvert in me was DYING from all the fast-paced, constant, and daily activity. The other thing these men seemed to lack is the ability to slow down and spend one-on-one quality time with me. It was weird. I don’t think all men who are wealthy are like this—I just happened to attract this certain type of man for a while which did not at all work for my personality. Very nice people, though, all the same.

My now-husband doesn’t make a ton, but he makes enough to take care of us. We share expenses but he’s more of a traditionalist and covers most things. However, I will say that’s his voluntary decision and I always spoil him as much as possible and contribute every way I can. I really like this more because it feels like we’re a powerhouse team.

What I value most from him though, and what he gives me most compared to any man before him is the amount of personal time and attention he gives me. He pampers me without the need for spending the $$, which I’m all about. It means the most to me when he helps with house chores, we goof around while buying groceries together, and when we compete against each other when we play a board game, puzzle, or video game. It’s the lighthearted simple atmosphere I’ve always been looking for and boy am I glad I found it.

LittleTurtleDuck · Answer

I have my own job and bankaccount so therefore I have my own money:
With a partner to live with I'd have a joined account where we would go 50-50 on rent/utility/food. Whatever we both individualy have left (after puting our share on the joint account) is for each of us to spend as we see fit.

So I don't need the money from someone else and if my partner has nothing left after putting in his share I'll gladly buy him some things he'd like. I'm not stingy and if I can make them happy and they make me happy it's good.

havingfun101 · Answer

'A study from University of Chicago reveals that when the wife makes more than her spouse, divorce rates rise 50 percent. ... A drastic rise in divorce rates among couples where the female is the breadwinner could spawn from the fact that more woman are graduating college than men.'
https://www. mybanktracker. com/news/female-breadwinner-lead-divorce#:~:text=A%20study%20from%20University%20of, divorce%20rates%20rise%2050%20percent.&text=A%20drastic%20rise%20in%20divorce, are%20graduating%20college%20than%20men.

Petra150 · Answer

I'd think it's a hard judgment of us women in general. I myself can tell that my hubby worked as an unskilled operator in a company when I met him, I had a good job as an real estate agents , and I gave up my job 2,5 year's ago to follow him to a job in Germany where we live now, he still hasn't got a leader job, but earn normal wage and I got a job like him. I simply loved him for the grey father and lover he were and for sure still is 100% every day

CupcakeKiller · Answer

I never really understood this. I earn more than my partner, we were excited WE would have more money and could work toward some financial goals WE have. We both work full time and are very comfortable with our combined income. Having some kind of job/goal is important at this stage in my life but the number isn't the be all end all.

hahahmm · Answer

For casual relationships, yes. For serious relationships, no. Not in a society where resources have cash value.

Female nature is to get a guy for serious who can raise her up. When you see a woman in serious with a guy who is lower status it’s because that’s the best she could get. Not because that’s what she wanted.

KungFuDoge · Answer

Those women who hit on rich guys are gold diggers, not actual genuine women, yes money is useful, it can help you live a happy life, but there are women who prfer genuine, kind and loving guys over rich assholes.

RingOfFire · Answer

It's funny. There is definitely a difference between views towards your partner's money situation between men and women.

I couldn't care less how much money a woman has. But women, especially those who want to start a family, want a man who can provide for her and the children at least while the kids are growing up. It's fascinating to me because it's a thought that normally would never cross my mind.

I think it's kind of sexy when they care about your money for this reason. It's sort of instinctual and raw.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, it depends on the overall situation and expectations. There are women who care more about the companionship than how much money the guy has, but, realistically, a guy will usually be constantly denigrated by her family and friends if he's broke. It also depends on how old he is and other factors.

scottyduwop · Answer

Both yes and no. Money provides a certain amount of comfort in life, it is nice to not have to worry about how bills are going to be paid and how groceries are going to be gotten. Its important to consider many people would for go a certain amount of money if it means having a really positive, loving relationship with their partner.

GlitterFairy16 · Answer

Yes of course, love doesn't cost a thing. It's the effort that matters. How much does a picnic in the park cost or a dinner and movie at home. Creativity is whats needed not money. My dad worked for his dad and sometimes didn't even get paid and my mum came from a wealthy family and he managed to win her over. You should never go into a relationship based on money.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

I think it's the resources not money women care about. I need food otherwise I will look like a witch 😂 and shelter, the rest is not necessary.

Anonymous · Answer

All women here are lying or trying to brag about their mindset. But in reality all of them want money. If you're not rich or at least financially stable they will leave you. I have seen this in the real world, remember Jorden Belfort went broke. His wife left him and also took his daughter.

Anybody can say anything on online forums BC all they need is fingers to type. But things are different in practical world dude!

Mark zuckerberg - programming is easy.

Bill gates - money doesn't matter.

Iam somerhaldar - looks don't matter.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Of course? I've been happy with plenty of men and their money never affected me.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

yes and no. depends on level of income your talking about. so long as he can support himself and their family for the most part on his own. even if she might need to chip in a bit here and there. since in modern times both sides are able to work and earn their own income at least to some degree. in order to help support their family unit.

modelUN242 · Answer

Depends, feminism has made it more difficult for men to meet the standards of women, who want a handsome and a man with a good career. Women with good careers can't settle for men who make less than them and they have a harder time in the dating market. Vice versa as well, men don't really want to be with women who make more than them.

kaylaS91 · Answer

of course.
I want my fiance to have a good job not necessarily for the financial aspect (as I can make-do on my own just fine) but because it would show that he's reliable, hard-working, and effective at completing tasks reasonably well. Which are all good traits I think everyone, both men and women, should seek out in a partner.

PetrovaFire92 · Answer

Money isn't everything. I rather have my own money.. then him trying to make me happy with his own money. I rather have his love ♥️. More then anything else.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

It's like you said.  If a women values the person and not his wallet more then she won't care about how much he makes. I think most women don't care how much you make as long as you have a stable job.

Browneye57 · Answer

Money and power is what women are drawn to. So get busy, and make a shit-ton, you'll have all the pussy you can stand.
Ever wonder how that ugly dipshit guy gets the hot girl? He's either got a big dick or a ton of dough. Or she's an idiot. LOL

UCrayCray · Answer

For me, it’s not a matter of money. But I’m not planning on being broke for life. If he’s not interested in working together to make our future better, then we really wouldn’t have a foundation to stand on.

RedThread · Answer

I think it depends on the lifestyle the people want. If the partners involved decide on the type of lives they want together and actively work towards that I don't think there's an issue. The issue is when people aren't on the same page. If both people are happy and passionate about what they do and where they are then that's what's important.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

The only women who cannot be made happy by a man, without money, are high maintenance little girls and gold-diggers.

daj86 · Answer

Money is important but its not something that would stop a connection and chemistry. That out weighs it all. As long has you can get through the basics of life together. That's all thT matters.

nella965 · Answer

If a woman cannot be happy with a man without money, it means she’s a gold digger

BeMuse · Answer

Ha, women are never happy. They are always cycling through random emotional states that they themselves do not even understand. They can get everything they ever need or want and then fabricate an irrational reason to be dissatisfied or mad about it.

Jennyj1225q · Answer

It actually depends on how you define no money on the both sides.

have_a_good_day · Answer

The good ones don't want money, they just want to be heard.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. You just have to be handsome and hot and have a big dick.

Wild_princess · Answer

Money to woman matters as much as looks matters to a man... so do looks matter to you? I hope you get your answers..😉😉

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I would rather be with someone who really cares about me and my happiness. if he’s concerned When I’m unhappy and would do anything to make that happen

garrysingh638 · Answer

Yes. It is possible. Mostly Rich people have extra affairs. When having love to soul of each other then no money can create problem. Every relationship stay on honesty and faith on each other.

SCRUMPSHUDILLIOCIOUS · Answer

Understand, we can’t make anyone happy, men or women. Happiness has to be found within one’s self. If you fail to  understand this, you’re f**ked.

natalie33345 · Answer

Yeah unless she a gold digger  she's a gold diggerWay over town, that digs on meNow, I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need) But she ain't messin' with no broke

jshm2 · Answer

Of course. But like anything, if the relationship is wholly centred around one thing, then it will fail as soon as there are problems with that one thing.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Nope. Women say yes but none of them would date a man without a job. Few of them would date a man in large debt.

Tiffyk · Answer

Yes. The ones who go for money are shallow. You don't want that anyway. But if you're gonna be a bum and not work, that's not a money problem, it's a laziness problem

SexyAshh · Answer

Uhmm No Money makes the world go around? Maybe if i was ugly and fat id date a hobo, but im neither. Be a man and earn your living. Otherwise, you're not a man

Koalamate · Answer

How do you date without money? The only way I can think is invite them over and cook together but that's kinda hard if it's a first date not everyone is comfortable with that.

R3DthatDude · Answer

No you need at least some, don’t need to be rich. I don’t see homeless people picking up women.

Celtero · Answer

No. A lot of women need the validation of having a man buy expensive stuff for them.

Loser94 · Answer

Nope money makes the world go round. I don't see a girl being with a guy who can't even keep food in his fridge or pay bills.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

You could be hot and have a big dick. Girls love that too. Shit you can be an ex con with no job and they will still want you.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

I used to think so, but more and more I believe not.

Nik1hil · Answer

Money can indirectly bring happiness to a women..  On some women it can work directly too..  Money is important and matters..

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the woman. but i would say yes.. the more liberal left leaning they are the more they will care that you have money..

Anonymous · Answer

Yes... it happened to me many times but usually those women are already fullfiled from a professional point of view and don't care about money that much.

TheFlak38 · Answer

when she's young all she wants is to get fucked. The pressure for money, kids and irrational demands comes later when the looks fade away and she must find other ways to lock down a man.

Anonymous · Answer

women are only happy for a short time. I have a big dick and my ex calls by sometimes for me to make her happy then returns to her white husband

michael1469 · Answer

I think so...

msc545 · Answer

Women are never happy without money they didn't earn

Anonymous · Answer

I've always supported my boyfriends because I only care about looks

memer2020 · Answer

ask black dudes , they don't make much money but still get a ton of girls  if your a white guy , then yea you need money

Silverio_Stieger · Answer

Some people would say "yes, with a big dick... And a wallet!" 😜

anita1102 · Answer

Money is the center of the society we have made... so it is important to have money but luxury is not important.

Broken_doll · Answer

As long as he don't spend my money

Anonymous · Answer

Doubt it, they are looking for the guys with the most resources,

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if she is physically attracted to him and/ or he has a super kiss ass personality.

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