Questions: Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 years, since we were 17. We were both virgins when we first met. We both love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. But we both think about being with other people, and we don't want to have any regrets. Could I only have sex with her for the rest of my life? Absolutely. But although we have a great sex life, being with a different woman would be a completely different experience.

We are thinking about having one night where we sleep with someone else. We're not going to meet the other persons date, so that there's no jealousy or anything. I don't love the idea of her being with another guy, but I trust her completely and I don't want her to have any regrets either. We haven't actually said that we would do it 100%, but we're talking about it.

But do you think this is a bad idea?

I was asked to delete photos of myself and an ex, that were on Facebook. We haven't been together in about a year and let's be honest they are an ex for a reason. However it makes my new partner kind of uncomfortable to see photos of me and ex. We aren't kissing or anything. But they mentioned I was looking at my ex the same way I look at them. what do you guys think?

Nothing emotional, nothing mutual, just a simple hand-job.

Rank them in order (typically) from 1 to 3 (1 being most emotionally painful and 3 being least).

Unrequited love: That girl/guy you had an intense crush on that you always dreamed about that you either barely knew, were either friends with, or at most managed to go on a couple dates with and then got rejected or friendzoned

Breakup after a short-term relationship: a breakup after a 1-year or less relationship.

Breakup after long-term relationship: a breakup after a 1+ year relationship.

Divorce: we all know.

Her ex bf constantly calls, I tell her I don't like it. She says "We're just friends, he has a gf; I can be friends with whoever I want; It's sad I have to end a friendship because of your blind jealousy"

She goes to her hometown. I call him and say she's my gf and to respect that. He tells me why he dumped her and doesn't want her.

My gf texts me "YOU can't CONTROL WHO IM FRIENDS WITH" I tell her the things he said about her. She gets mad at him. He screen shot their texts so I would end it with her.

Over the 2 years we've been together she's texted him "I miss you" "come visit me" every few months.

When we got together she told him "A guy I've been dating asked me to be his gf and I said yes. I wish things were different but I'm trying to be happy"

When she first got to her hometown she says "I dreamed I got to see you but then you left and I was sad" he says "Ive been dreaming about you too since you said you were coming to town"

I have a bouquet of flowers delivered to her parents house, she says she loves me and she's going to bed. She then texts him to "come over to hang out and smoke weed"

The next day she texts him and says "You made me feel uncomfortable so it was a factor. I care about you deeply but I have someone. Sometimes emotions can be ravaging."

The next day he says "Your bf called me, I'm gonna assume that us being friends is an issue" She says "No" and he says "Im not going to stop being friends unless thats what you want. Your bf will never be comfortable with that and by talking with him you add another level to this that is not positive" She says "we can't be friends you're dragging me down with you and cusses him out for talking bad about her to me"

She told me "they have a complex friendship that I couldn't understand" that her dream texts were "innocent nostalgia" she lied about having him over since "I would be mad" She said "he made a move and she kicked him out immediately"

I dont know what to believe

Simple question. Is unrequited love or a break-up worse in your opinion.

I'm sure a break-up is worse to a lot of people, especially when it's you that gets dumped when you think things were going so well. But for me, I think it's unrequited love. because you never find out what could've been.