I know you can't tell much from texting, but what behaviors are most likely to indicate a girl's interest in a guy?
Does anyone know any indicators of interest over texting that a girl likes you?
It's actually not that easy to tell, because each girl is different. Some indicators that could appear to be signs of interest in you may not actually be that, maybe it's just the girls personality or you are just a great friend of hers. Anyway, this might help:
1. Fast answers. If a girl texts you back quickly, with a nice response (not just "haha :)" or "ok :)") it can be her showing interest.
2. Falling asleep instead of going to sleep. If a girl falls asleep during a conversation over the night, she's not bored or being rude, she just didn't want to say "bye", she wanted to keep speaking with you even if she was already drowsy.
3. "Sorry" texts. If a girl hasn't respond to your texts for a while (either it is five minutes while she was brushing her teath, or her cellphone "died", or she spent 20 minutes eating, or she fell asleep) and she apologizes and tells you what she was doing and justifies why she didn't respond, that could be an indicator.
4. Questions about your day. If a girl texts you asking about how your day is going, even if she knew there was nothing "outstanding" going on with your day, she's probably interested.
5. "Good morning/night" texts. If a girl texts you when she gets up to say good morning and/or before she goes to sleep tells you good night, she might be giving a sign.
6. Everyday texts. If you and a girl manage to have interesting conversations everyday without stop, she could be showing interest.
7. *Sometimes* Pics. If she sends pictures of her outfits and she looks really good or (in "hotter" situations) pictures of her in underwear and asks if it looks good. Sometimes it gets to sending pictures of her boobs/ass and asking "is it to big/small?" (But this point is a more specific case)
Note: look at the emojis (if she uses any) some smiles or embarassment faces, or the hearts and smiles with heart eyes or any other similar to those, could be indicators.
>Hope it helped! :)
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Yeah if she uses emojis but then again, a girl uses them a lot so she might also not use them bc she wants to hide the fact she likes youu. She'll text you about things that weren't really neccessary, she wants an excuse to talk to you. She will respond and ask you questions and she will use your name a lot. I would try to be funny.
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Best give away that a girl is interested:
Answers quickly
Apologizes when she doesn't
Flirty comments and winky faces
Goodnight texts
"random" texts with pictures of what she's doing if she thinks it would be something you'd be interested in
If you ask her something which is quite an important issue for you and ask for her input then if she is really keen on you she will most likely answer back with a large paragraph or another way of telling is if you dont text her for a while and see if she texts you if she does then she can't keep away and is really interested!
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There's no strict indicators man. If you feel like something's a hint, take the opening. Never miss an opening. If you fuck up you fuck up whatever it's not that big a deal anyway
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Fast replies to your texts, asking you open-ended questions, complimenting you (though that's not always an indicator of flirting), maybe trying to impress you with her academic accomplishments?, I'm not sure.
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If she initiates mosy texts. If she says good morning or afternoon. almost ritually. If she tends to answer almost all of your text instantly as if she were waiting on them. Sometimes even smily faces or eye winks.
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If she adds lots of emojis and answers quickly. :) Also if she types a lot more stuff--I don't answer with short texts if I like the guy. I want to talk a lot and be interesting.
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Well
I'm usually pretty obvious
"You're hot"
"Lemme touch yo biceps"
"Nice dick"
Basically, if she flirts with you, she's likely interested. Keep a lookout for that winky face.
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Fast replies, convo and more convos, emotion faces. When you notice she's giving you a good amount of time that's when you know she's interested
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Constant texting, pet names, a lot of wyd, a lot of pics sent to your phone... yeah if you got those, she likes you Romeo!!!
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Lots on emojis (smiley faces) and a lot of haha, hehe, lol wink faces
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Constant smiley faces is all I can really think of or making corny ass jokes in not sure though
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A clear indicator would be if you ask her and she says yes. =P
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If she doesn't give you one word answers and responds quickly
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If she asks you a lot of questions or if she responds quickly and thoroughly.
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Indicators are unreliable, let her actions tell you by suggesting doing stuff together - like going to the movies or something.
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Watch out for stuff like "…" and "Um". That means she's hiding something most of the time. Maybe she likes you and gets all shy around you.
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She texts first, always tosses in smilies, always responds to your texts never R bombs you, that's how you know.
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I don't think texting shows anything
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If she responds quickly and tried to continue the onversaton
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Lots of smiley faces, repeated letters like thiis "hiii heyy suppp, ect" and her always texting you first and/or responding rather quickly. Everyone is different but those are the most common.
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We start sending smile faces, lol, omg my boobs hurt, my boobs are size-, want to hook up?, and much more but there are a ton os ways to see if a girl is crushing on you.
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I know i will purposely say his name in a text or few. I mirror the way id flirt in person, meaning smileys or emojies, teasing, lots of questions because i want to get to know him
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She might be a little flirty or try to tell u about herself. Watch out for the emoji that she puts that can be a big hint too
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