Polls: Relationships

I like my crush that I tried moving on from multiple times. I have my reasons for liking her. She brings out the best in me, which is good and important to me. She makes everything better, when I’m around her. I’m not sure, if I’m in love or just like her. I truly care about her and have shown her that I do. A lot of the time, I’m concerned about her getting the coronavirus because she doesn’t really wear a mask. She’s tells me that I shouldn’t worry because she’s not afraid of the virus. That’s her view and I respect that, but that doesn’t mean I’ll stop caring. I can tell all this is first and it’s a first for me too because I’ve never had deep feelings for anyone before or even cared for someone this much before. There’s been a few times, when she wasn’t feeling good and I showed my concern for her. I would always ask, if she’s alright. Overall, if she not doing well I’m concerned, even when she’s having a bad day I try and cheer her up. I’m not sure, if girls care about something like this. Had to ask though. She isn’t interested in me at the moment, but she’s only 19 years old and has never been in a relationship before, and has never gotten this much attention from guy from what she told me. She still trying to discover herself and see what she wants in a guy.

I've noticed i have a bit of a habit of using certain terms of endearment, mostly with women i don't know all that well. I usually use words like sweetheart or darlin' or even babe if I do know them somewhat. It's well received it seems to me any time I do it, but I am curious as to what you all think about it

We all have an inner child inside.

One thing I enjoy with my girlfriend is nurturing her and when she nurtures me. It's loving. I can lay down in her lap and she caresses and do the same for her, gently rubbing her hair, face. It's comforting, relaxing. Communication is more calm. I don't find my too old, makes me feel young.

Is this something you do? Something you want in relationship?

Do you think people over 60 want this or they are too old?

I tried moving on from her twice by trying to like other people and by using dating apps, but she still would cross my mind. She has my heart. Should I tell her that I’m in love with her? She already knows that I have feelings for her, but I haven’t told her that I love her. Keep in mind we’re not together or dating. We’re friends and have a lot in common. We see each other all the time. I’m asking because I don’t want to make a mistake.

I have a really high sex drive that's difficult to control, and I always have a knack for falling for taken women, so I'm not gonna pass up the opportunity.

Part of me feels sorry for their husbands, but at the same time, THEY'RE the ones who lead me. She's a grownass woman who knows exactly what she's doing. What's going on in their marriage isn't my problem. If I have an opportunity, I'm gonna take it. If their marriage falls appart it's on HER. I didn't manipulate her in anyway.

To be honest, I'm more worried about him finding out and kicking my ass, then I am about his feelings. Is this selfish?

I thought about how do you think your past partners view you. What kind of partner were you with the majority of your past relationships? And what’s your connection with them now?

I’m usually on good terms with most of mine, I might be blocked by some 😂

There’s a girl that I like and tried moving on from twice on a couple of dating apps and in person with other girls, and she knows that. I’ve never felt this way before about anyone, until now. Some of my friends told me that I can do better, but I truly like her and don’t care about anyone’s opinion. Although, she’s 19 years old and I’m 28 years old. I drew a flower for her awhile back and I’m going to make a glitter pumpkin for her tomorrow and give it to her on Monday, when I see her. I care about her and want what’s best for her in life. I’m always asking her how she’s doing, always showing my concern for her about getting the coronavirus and always helping her out in general. She’s special to me. Just curious, if girls can end up liking guys they previously didn't? She’s only 19 years old and still has a lot to sort out in life, so maybe things can change and we can be more, than friends. She’s currently not looking for anything right now, which I’m respecting.