Please make a list of your cool stuff so when he kills you, I mean accidentally ends your life, we have opportunity to bid on it.
what else am I supposed to say? no, this is not normal or good. He stuffed a sock in your face because of communications issues... fix that.
I find it fascinating you chose someone like the people you grew up with. I know a female who roughhoused with brothers, but she doesn't do that with hubby. Why don't you all take some martial arts or something and treat each other nice... before any offspring show up.
please don't make offspring anytime soon.
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I don't think anyone's at fault - things like that just happen - Like your instincts were to push his face and hit him because you weren't able to breathe - While I'm pretty sure that if he knew that it was literally killing you he'd have stopped right there - just explain to him how bad it was for you and that you didn't mean for it to happen, and obviously that you're sorry his perfect teeth aren't that perfect anymore - Yea maybe not that last sentence
I feel like you both are at fault. You reacted to something he was doing and that was the end result. Had he not tried to suffocate you (and with a damn dirty sock at that!) then you wouldn't have had to chip his tooth. Cause and effect. Tell him if Fabolous got away with having a chipped tooth most of his career, he'll be alright lol.
He's a man don't make it your problem unless it was on purpose which I know it was not.
Sorry man
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I voted 'Boyfriend is at fault' but here's the pivotal line:
"( I know it sounds bad but this is normal behavior for both of us)."
You guys play some dangerous games. It's almost a draw here as to who's worse."Last night he tried to suffocate me with a dirty sock" does not sound like normal behavior in less you both are in grade school. Though both of you are at fault. He is a fault for doing crap for that and you are at fault for sticking around when he does.
Just because toxic behavior is normal doesn't mean it's okay. If you were panicking enough to hit him hard enough to chip his tooth then he was most likely going way too far in suffocating you. It sounds like you are experiencing emotional and possibly physical abuse
If you couldn't breathe, your bully boyfriend is totally at fault, and deserved whatever he got. In that situation, you're entitled to do whatever it takes to get him off you.
For future reference, if he gets that physical again, knee him in the nuts.When your dying, people do tend to panic. You have no control over what happens when gasping for air. I'd recommend a boyfriend who doesn't do this and you should not do it to your man either but maybe your just right for each other if you both do stuff like that to each other.
I say both. Yeah he’s responsible for playing too rough and not seeing it was bothering you on another level. You also hold the responsibility for understanding he does things like that and letting the immaturity and reckless behavior to continue. From what I understand, i get it’s all fun and games but be careful because if shit goes sideways, no one wants to hear “oh I’m sorry!” During a serious injury
Your boyfriend is 100% at fault. he should know that anyone put in your situation would panic and when they panic.. things happen, arms fly every where etc..
He knew what he was doing. he should know better and you did not do it on purpose. Im sorry you’re going through this.That's not normal behaviour, the sock treatment and such. Even the Joker and Harley Quinn would be disgusted by it😅
Your opening sentence pretty means leave him.
boyfriend or no, a relationship with a person that bullies is simply toxic.Wow these comments are harsh… but ummm wow… I don’t even know what to say lol… I’ve heard of rough play but that’s extreme. However he can get his tooth/teeth repaired.. no big deal on that end… however, are YOU okay?
#1 he got what he deserve even if y'all do play or whatever. Like wtf he was suffocating you
#2 i’d be furious because i dont play about my teeth. We wouldve had to breakup for both of the above reasonsHe shouldn't have been so rough with you and should've stopped when you asked him to stop the first time. And damn; what kind of phone do you have that it can break teeth?
When you play around by swinging at each other, you're sooner or later bound to clip the other with said swings. You either fix your concept of playfulness, or get down to terms with bruising each other up.
It’s both your faults for not setting boundaries while play fighting like buffoons. If he’s that much bigger than you, how is it mutual? He’ll always win unless he lets you and that’s not fun.
He sounds mean and I wonder why you stay with thim.
Boyfriend at fault, he is playing rough , guys got learn to be easy
I call that karma. If he’s going around shoving dirty socks in your face he deserves a chipped tooth.
Interesting how so many people blame the man here even when she says that it was a normal practice between them, this is the reason I don't want a girlfriend, she can literally falsely accused abuse or even rape and everyone will believe her blindly.
It's either both of your faults. Those are the boundaries you set and those are the chances you take.
That's what happens when you act like children... so stupid.
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