Polls: Relationships

I am 22 and he is 29. I met this man a while ago and we instantly had a connection. It wasn’t romantic at first because we had many mutual friends. But somehow we started hanging out more and I realized that I was in fact interested in him in the beginning but was trying to block those feelings after finding out that he is married (I didn’t really notice the ring at first but rather around the second time we met with mutual friends).
We live in different cities but he calls me every single day and we find it so easy to talk and I feel as if I’ve known him for a long time.
He has been telling me about his problems with his wife, they have been married for nearly 9 year and says that every single day it gets worse and worse and their relationship is deteriorating so he thinks that people live only once and should be with those that you love. He says he will never forget his children and will always be a fatherly figure for them and support his wife and family financially and in whatever other we he can but he wants to “wake up with me and be with me”. This morning he txted me very early and said: I am so confused. I love my children so much and will never leave them because I know she will never let me see them again. I don’t want to be the man that dumps his kids.
This text freaked me out and
I feel terrible. I was never the initiator of our relationship, and I knew from the beginning that a married man is a no go zone. I don’t love or have an interest for many men. And it disappoints me that the man that has found a place in my heart is married. I don’t want to break his family. I know our mutual friends will hate me and because we have many- I will probably be hated and I told him that and he said: well we only live once and I want to follow my heart.
Help. I don’t know what to do and am confused and feel terrible and want to drop all this immediately but it is so hard. Has anyone been in this situation?

My boyfriend has a crush on someone else. He literally posted it on Twitter. His caption was ‘I have a girlfriend but y am I still crushing on my ex crush?’ Ofc I got pissed. He kept saying he loves me and there’s no other girl like me but he’s got an eye on someone else. And he gets jealous whenever I talk to other boys. I keep telling him they’re just my friends but he can’t help himself but feel insecure.

I am torn on this one. It seems men have one standard... is she hot, but I know some women personally who have chosen guys so bad that if I drug a bum out of the gutter (shower optional) I would have a better guy than their guy. I think that most women are afraid to be alone. They are defined by their relationship. If they are not in one they lose social status and source of entertainment. Most women do not have hobbies or careers so he is their hobby.

Now men on the other hand seem to put up with a lot of bs all for a hot woman. I hear guys complain she won't work, take care of house or kids, snuck around got credit cards with him knowing and goes out partying. I have heard this story A LOT. The only answer I got to why stay is she is hot.

I know this is not all cases. It is just a story i hear a lot from both sides. This is just my opinion from personal experience so if you dont like it move on to another question. I am sick of people coming to my questions with their insults and bull. If you have something intelligent to contribute please add it. I am curious if others have experienced similar stories. Or tell me your personal story.

I’d say these are probably the two most popular cuddling positions: Spooning and Half-Spoon.

Personally, I choose the half-spoon position because I like feeling warm and protected. However, my boyfriend likes spooning more.

Spooning or Half-Spoon? Which do you enjoy most and why? 😁

also applies to boys