Polls: Relationships

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I noticed that us girls get from one second to another super insecure without having a particular reason, hence only in cases where the GUY is super serious about the relationship, I've been like that too until i understood that i am always being paranoid without any reason, i was CONVINCED that my man was seeing other women, until one day i was fed up and i took his phone and locked myself in the bathroom and GUESS WHAT I FOUND... NOTHING !!! Texts between him the group of soccer friends, his uncles, his mom, his male friends, not even ONE GIRL, then I've seen girls saying HE TEXTED ME BACK AFTER 5 HOURS... (while in fact he was just taking a nap), but whose fault is it that we tend to dramatize things this way? Sometimes we tend to drive our men crazy and i think we should try and stop it... So why are girls so insecure while our man are trustworthy and amazing?

Luckily I've never been cheated on but this makes me wonder. If someone cheats on their partner (whether in a relationship or marriage) with 2 or more people can they still love their partner in their own way? Even if it's a distorted manner.

I've know two married men who have cheated multiple times but claimed to still love their wives and were devastated when the wife found out and nearly file for divorce.
My female best friend cheated on a previous boyfriend with 3 guys and according to her there was nothing wrong in the relationship. Like the men, she also couldn't explain why she cheated and claimed to still love her boyfriend and that it was just sex with the other guys.

Dakota met a very attractive, married man.
She has known him approximately 4-5 months.
When she first met Rick, he only wanted a one night stand. Dakota declined and realized this hurt his ego a bit. She didn't care, she was after respect.
They flirted very much after that, and at one point Rick massaged her shoulders before even knowing she was only seen as the one night stand.
Every time they saw each other, their eyes both lit up , and they smiled at one another.

Dakota has learned this man is unhappily married and even so, they still gave each other these desirable looks. Dakota never gave in though and Rick attempted many times.

Then Dakota realized, she was starting to like this man more than planned... so she spoke her honesty. "I think I'm falling for you, Rick."
He had said nothing to her in return until they saw one another again and Rick responded, "When you said you were starting to get feelings, that was when I started backing off, I don't mess with feelings."
Even so, he still smiled at her, still wanted to be close to her.

On NYE, Dakota ended up getting drunk and sleeping with a random guy in the basement, with whom Rick had heard the action as he had arrived at the house. His protective instincts kicked in immediately, and he was about to go in the basement, but Dakota came up just in time and met everyone at the table. To which Rick spoke "Are you cheating on me?" in a supposed joking manner.
Later in the night, they kissed. It wasn't forced. It was gentle, and Rick groaned a bit. They kissed a second time. After that, changes started appearing in both of them.
He still wanted that "one night stand."

Instead, she told him she'd just like him over for company one night and he arrived. She opened up further to him certain life events. The look on his face, almost looked painful, stricken with guilt. He left early, and rubbed the hair on Dakota's head she flinched, he smirked and did it again playfully.

He really wants to have sex with another woman for his birthday. I am considering it but I'm still not sure. Do you think I should let him?

So basically, would having sex with girl your height who is curvy be disgusting or would it be okay?



For the reference, this is what I meant when I said slim to average guy >> https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/attachment.php?attachmentid=201161&d=1362438225


And this is what I meant when I said curvy girl >>

If the partner wants it as a condition before marriage and the woman doesn't want to agree to prenuptial agreement.