Questions: Relationships

I have my phone password protected but face recognition eliminates the inconvenience created by the added security. I have it protected because some of my clients communicate with me via text and I am obligated to protect their confidential communications. However, if my wife suspected me of any inappropriate communications with someone, I would gladly unlock the phone and allow her to look at anything on the phone (except confidential client communications, as required by my professional rules of ethics.) If she has any suspicions, I know they are unfounded because I am 100% faithful and loyal, and I avoid even the appearance of doing anything inappropriate. And, if she has suspicions, I want to show her that I have nothing to hide and resolve her doubts immediately. If I had doubts about her, I would hope that she would do the same for me. And I would allow her to look at my laptop, also (with the same restriction.)

Are you willing to compromise your digital privacy in a relationship? If not, why not? And how do you respond to the statement, "If you have nothing to hide, then you would let me look at your phone?"

If a guy slapped or hit his female partner, almost all of us would insist that such behavior is unacceptable and we would agree that it was grounds for an immediate break up or divorce. No argument, no doubt.

In my experience, if a girl loses her temper and wants to strike out physically, it is most often done by a slap rather than a closed fist. Functionally, a slap from a woman means the same disrespect as a punch from a guy but, obviously, a slap from a girl doesn't usually hurt in the same as a punch from a guy.

So. . . what if a girl slaps her male partner, is that behavior acceptable or is it unacceptable just like a punch from a guy? If a girl slaps her partner, is that grounds for an immediate break up or divorce?