I find that older people tend to be more judgmental than younger people.
A new Christian will express their religion by looking for ways to improve themselves.
While a jaded and close minded Christian who try to express their religion by judging and criticizing others and many will condemn and judge those who socially obscure them because they view this affront to their reputation as a threat to their livelihood, romantic opportunities and job connections.
The ancient Egyptians believed in a feather test for dead kings. The only way a king could go to heaven after he died was it his soul was lighter than a feather
So if you were going to draw your identity or self conception, how heavy would it be?
Would your ego look like King Kong or would it like look like a baby lamb?
How do you view yourself and how do you treat those who insult or dislike you?
Do you smile and ignore them and try to be kind or do you pronounce curses over them and try to ruin their lives?